When with a JO bud - how long for the whole activity?

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  1. horneyoldguy

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    We met at the gym where we both workout and frequently use the steam room and whirlpool together and talk. About 3 weeks ago he approaced me as to whether I would be interested in jacking as a buddy. We both think of ourselves as straight but curious and we had our first mutual experience today and it involved more then jacking. We both sucked the other's cock to get it hard and erect. From the beginning, when we first took off our clothes and felt up each other's cocks, to the end, when we shot our cum, the whole experience was about 45 minutes. I would like to hear from the more experienced JO Buds out there as to whether this is a normal time frame for a buddy JO session with a bud? :biggrin1:
     
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    :wank:Hey man, feel bad no one answered you yet.
    I have only had j/o buddies on line, met one tonight. They all were pretty hot some were quick, tonight about 25-30 minutes. I hope my new friend downloads newer version of Yahoo.
    See ya 'round the site.
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    Sometimes people take their time. The abnormal thing is that you started off with oral sex?

    Oral SEX, btw, despite what Bill Clinton maintains, counts as sex.

    Meeting together for specifically, sexual activity together, is a bit different than the casual jack off buddy relationship. This is probably much more related to you exploring that 1% side of you that is curious about other males.

    When i was younger i had a couple friends who this sort of thing happened with, and there was one friend with whom things started lasting longer, and getting more...exploratory. This individual would become my first official 'boyfriend' in time.

    Obviously if you're straight that won't happen to you, but still it sounds like there was perhaps something above merely two friends who are getting off together.
     
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    I enjoy the time and usually don't pay any attention as to how long it lasts but uisually 20-30 mins or so.
     
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    We are both novices at jacking with a byd - My last experience was in my 20s, over 40 years ago, and it was just mutual masturbation and I broke if off when the guy wanted me to suck him off.

    My bud said his experience is more recent - a guy there would have him over to his house and would give him massages and suck him off, which he said he liked. The guy also gave my bud rimming and prostate massages which he said he didn't like. He said he never reciprocated because the other guy didn't want it.

    As for the oral sex part, after reading threads on here and talking to some guys that I yahoo with, got the impression that when JO bud met you would JO but might need to do something else to help your partner get hard. However, you are also right, I wanted to see what it was like from the other side because I like it when my female partner goes down on me to get me hard. To be honest I got nothing out of the experience except the feeling that I had a an overly large sausage wedged in there. However, it did get him very hard.

    As for the jacking part, both my bud and I like it when someone else jacks us: which is usually our wives. The problem that arose is he is a quick shooter and I take a long time so as I massaged him I had to keep stopping because he was going to shoot and when he worked me even though I was hard, my body likes the sensation of stroking and won't cum until both the cock and balls are worked for a while.

    It ended when he was stroking both out cocks (frottage) and he shot quickly but still had to work the two of them until I shot my cum. HIs comment after it was over was he found the experience "interesting" and I should be a porn star because of my "staying" power and the fact that - as he put it - well endowed.

    I am not sure what he meant by interesting but I found the overall experience very enjoyable and hope there is a second time because I theroughly enjoy being jacked by another.

    As for the classification of 99% straight / 1% gay, whe I first joined LPSG I originally had 100% straight but because I admire the "cock's" shape and size I figured that was a little gay so i changed the classification to the 1% gay.

    As for becoming "BFs" - I consider my JO bud as nothing more then a male friend no different form the other guys at the gym I converse with. The only differnce is this guy I call a JO bud and I have discussed a similar problem in our sex lives. Our wifes don't give us the frequency of sex as they did when we were 30 or 40 years younger (we are both the same age) so we have both turned more and more to self gratification and while we both know masturbation is generally a solo thing, we thought it wound pleasureable to do it with someone else.
     
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    nah, that's typical of almost all straight guys. Gay is a sexual reaction to the male form, rippled abs, appealing buttocks, that sort of thing. :p

    I suppose it sounds more like a normal JO buddy relationship. IF it takes more work for you to climax, then it would be expected that these experiences would last longer for you, so i wouldn't worry about it. :)
     
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    I enjoy jerking off with friends from time to time, we watch some porn, talk, and stroke.

    There is no contact between us.

    They are just friends, maybe closer than others, at the end we share much intimity.

    We don't meet with the intention of wanking, it just happens, and when it does it takes one hour, i think. Porn has to turn us on.
     
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    It really depends of how horny we are... Once it only took 10 minutes but most of the time it's around 45 minutes/ 1 hour, we like to take our time.
     
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