How do you get your mind off of it? It's all I think of anyway but since I'm on "pelvic rest" for the next 4 weeks. I can't have penetrative sex and I tried to orgasm clitorally lastnight with no luck. It tuckered me out before I could even get to 1. I don't want to turn my sex drive OFF because I want it to be ON when we are able. What the fuck am I supposed to do? It's so frustrating. Just being in his presence is more than I can take most days. And laying in bed with him at night....oh man oh man. I need help from men (and womangs) who are accustomed to controlling their sexual urges even if they can't masturbate.