When you cum ?

[just Erik]

When you are about to cum, do you tense up your leg muscles or any other muscles, trying to delay the orgasm? Or you are trying to hold back so you can build up the intensity of the orgasm?
Recently I have tried to stay totally relaxed,, this does not work for orgasms I am giving myself. Works best if someone is giving you a blow job. I keep things relaxed and just let the orgasm happen, it kind of dribbles out, not a huge load, the upside is I can get hard again much faster if I just let it happen and relax. Sometimes I don't even go completely soft and the party isn't over .

 

[DenverFur]

The orgasm and satisfaction level are just so much higher/intense when you tense the muscles, and fight, trying to hold the cum back for as long as you can. And you shoot for distance. When I was younger... I usually had to climax 3 times, before the horny would finally wear off, and my hardon would go down. And occasionally I still have days like that. But now that I'm at 50, I've found that I'd much rather just have one long, mind blowing session, then waste the time and energy on a bunch of smaller less intense orgasms. I'm old and I've got shit to do. lol