I had a terrible day at work. It's not all that often that my frustrations break past my rapport with people who come in the restaurant, but I had simply been there way too long this afternoon and I had my fill of incredibly unappreciative clients.
I might have mentioned this before, but I'm a bit of a flirt with my female co-workers. Trust me, it's nothing that borders on sexual harassment; I like hugging and laughing and goofing off with the girls, and they seem to like me alright.
And even though I had a damn shitty day at work, one girl named Amy said something really nice. She said that I looked good today; if you must know, I've been a little worn because I've been sick, and getting a compliment like that really hit me. (Personally, I think it's a good thing the bar 'n grill makes us wear black dress shirts tucked in with blue jeans. I think we all look better for it.) She gave me a huge hug and started playing with my hair; she likes it when I have it pulled back like so.
The reason why I bring this up... two, really. I want to get people's personal reactions and experiences -- is it me or do people (in general) appreciate compliments like these, and in addition, hearing something nice like that can break someone out of a funky mood that it makes 'em smile? And two, well, I just wanted to bunk the sentiment that only women really appreciate hearing nice things. Guys do too.
So, there...
I might have mentioned this before, but I'm a bit of a flirt with my female co-workers. Trust me, it's nothing that borders on sexual harassment; I like hugging and laughing and goofing off with the girls, and they seem to like me alright.
And even though I had a damn shitty day at work, one girl named Amy said something really nice. She said that I looked good today; if you must know, I've been a little worn because I've been sick, and getting a compliment like that really hit me. (Personally, I think it's a good thing the bar 'n grill makes us wear black dress shirts tucked in with blue jeans. I think we all look better for it.) She gave me a huge hug and started playing with my hair; she likes it when I have it pulled back like so.
The reason why I bring this up... two, really. I want to get people's personal reactions and experiences -- is it me or do people (in general) appreciate compliments like these, and in addition, hearing something nice like that can break someone out of a funky mood that it makes 'em smile? And two, well, I just wanted to bunk the sentiment that only women really appreciate hearing nice things. Guys do too.
So, there...