I have been married for 14 years, my wife is everything I wanted in a mate. She is intelligent, beautiful, has a great job, etc. However, our sex life has not been great over the last few years. Its the same story I've heard from many married people, for some reason the sex just isn't the same as it was in the beginning, if we have sex 4 times a month, that is alot now. Therefore, I decided to get a mistress, as well as a side piece or two.:smile: My mistress does everything as far as sex, it is great. The other two ladies are great as well, can't get enough of the three of them. Its now at the point where I don't want to have sex with my wife. I still love her but I rather have sex with the other ladies. I have tired to spice up the sex with the wife but nothing seems to work, she is tired, not in the mood, etc. So I guess I will just continue to enjoy the sex with my "ladies" and not worry about it, any thoughts on this?