When you see a big cock

[deleted931509]

I'm a straight guy, and I like to have my cock worshipped.
In porn, if I see a guy with a big cock, I always like to imagine that that's my cock. It's like the big penis is the character in the movie who I can root for.
Do gay men see this differently? Like when they see a big cock they want to suck it or fuck it? Maybe that's like a test for gayness? If you want to do something with the cock, you're gay. If you want to be the cock, you're straight.
What do you think?

 

[winesthel945]

Speaks to this issue: http://www.cc.com/video-clips/4yhevr/stand-up-ron-white--homosexuality

 

[deleted931509]

Speaks to this issue: http://www.cc.com/video-clips/4yhevr/stand-up-ron-white--homosexuality

Can't view it from here, sadly.

 

[deleted931509]

Was it perhaps this standup?

Excellent comedy, although doesn't quite address my question.

 

[Brodie888]

I think it would depend on whether the person is a pitcher or a catcher.

 

[deleted931509]

I think it would depend on whether the person is a pitcher or a catcher.

Damn baseball references
I'm guessing you mean if the man is taking it or giving it. I was actually talking about watching straight porn, so the man would be the giver.

 

[Brodie888]

Gay men can be purely the givers or purely the recievers or a mix of both.

So a giver will see themselves as a straight man would but they'd probably imagine the girl that's being fucked in the ass as a slim feminine man.

 

[deleted931509]

Gay men can be purely the givers or purely the recievers or a mix of both.

So a giver will see themselves as a straight man would but they'd probably imagine the girl that's being fucked in the ass as a slim feminine man.

That's an interesting insight. Are you suggesting that gay tops like to imagine they're fucking women?

 

[Brodie888]

That's an interesting insight. Are you suggesting that gay tops like to imagine they're fucking women?

No. It's no different than a straight guy who likes the woman to be in control and dominate them in bed. He's not gay, he just likes a dominant woman.

 

[deleted931509]

I don't think it's question of dominance, it's who you want to fuck. I'm a dominant guy myself but I would only want to fuck a woman. But I guess that's what makes us straight or gay - who we want to fuck (duh!).
Sorry for stating the obvious. Can we get back to the subject of what gay men - top or bottom - think when they see porn depicting a large penis?

 

[deleted931509]

Sorry I've just realised I misunderstood your comment. The comparisons with straight sex are perhaps misleading.

 

[Titanomachina]

It depends I guess. It used to do something for me and made me want to do whatever to suck it and stroke it, I guess you could say it made me weak.

Now it's like any other piece of meat.

 

[deleted931509]

It depends I guess. It used to do something for me and made me want to do whatever to suck it and stroke it, I guess you could say it made me weak.

Now it's like any other piece of meat.

Oh, so jaded?

 

[Titanomachina]

Oh, so jaded?

More like a phase I grew out of. I decided not to be another fool who went weak at such a big cock. I guess you could call it mental mastery.

 

[deleted931509]

More like a phase I grew out of. I decided not to be another fool who went weak at such a big cock. I guess you could call it mental mastery.

Well I congratulate you on learning and becoming a better person. But you're still on LPSG - do you still go weak at a big cock, or have it as an occasional indulgence?

 

[deleted931509]

Sorry if that was a rude question, I meant no offence, just curious to know what you think.

 

[Titanomachina]

Well I congratulate you on learning and becoming a better person. But you're still on LPSG - do you still go weak at a big cock, or have it as an occasional indulgence?

I have other uses for this site. That's about as specific as I can get.

Mostly because it's useful for finding some porn sites. Nothing to do with large cocks but is easier to find stuff through here.

 

[alcor972]

it is possible that the focus in my interest in straight porn is not in watching cocks... but in watching men...
what makes a cock arousing to me is that it is linked to a male body...
there is in the same time a strong questionning inside me about masculinity and my strong straight porn consumption may be related to this questionning...
this is why I would displace the test you talked about more on a masculine gender definition consideration...

 

[328982]

I'm a straight guy, and I like to have my cock worshipped.
In porn, if I see a guy with a big cock, I always like to imagine that that's my cock. It's like the big penis is the character in the movie who I can root for.
Do gay men see this differently? Like when they see a big cock they want to suck it or fuck it? Maybe that's like a test for gayness? If you want to do something with the cock, you're gay. If you want to be the cock, you're straight.
What do you think?

Maybe, though it's a thin line between wanting to be the cock and wanting to be with it.

 

[328982]

I'm a straight guy, and I like to have my cock worshipped.
In porn, if I see a guy with a big cock, I always like to imagine that that's my cock. It's like the big penis is the character in the movie who I can root for.
Do gay men see this differently? Like when they see a big cock they want to suck it or fuck it? Maybe that's like a test for gayness? If you want to do something with the cock, you're gay. If you want to be the cock, you're straight.
What do you think?

When I watch straight porn, it's not the cock or the pussy specifically that turns me on, it's the interaction between the two. Solo wank vids don't do it for me. I don't think I ever identify consciously with the cock (or the pussy)