Hi Mike- not into toys, yet I've gotten a couple over the last few years. (I've usually bottomed, but not been with someone for a couple of years..even for a one-night-sex session.)
When I'm jackin'off, and want some anal (and here's where the imagination can be important), I've tried with one dildo...thick, long,, and I'm scared! Head get's in, and the "dildo/big/not someone" starts to stop me, not a turn on.
I've been jackin'off, in the shower,,,horny, and a smaller but thick dildo, along with some imagination/fantasy of, makes me relax enough, stroke enough, and have a great orgasm. (yet: it's an "It", the dildo...)
Sometimes fun, yet I hope to be in bed with a guy who, well, We Both Feel Pleasure....it's better.
Love and Pleasure, to You- be Aware of how it comes!
"Big Toad"