When Your Top Is A Minute Man?

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Dear bottoms

Can you tell me your experiences with minute man tops? The ones who put it in, cum, and then instantly are soft without chances of getting hard again for a long time...

What's going on in your head?
Is that enough for you since you've pleasured the top as you should?
Do you instantly hop online looking for something more satisfying?
Does he leave and then you jack yourself off?

I guess my question is... as the bottom, if you don't cum during intercourse, do you cum at all? The top is satiated because he's cummed, but when is the bottom satiated?
 

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I'd rather a guy who cums in a minute than a guy who can't cum at all. If all he can manage is a minute, then he needs to bring you to that point where all you need is that minute to push you over the edge and cum.

Sex is a performance art. The role I give to myself is to provide my partner with the best sexual experience possible.

Like any performance, there's a beginning, middle and end of the story. If he's someone who cums quickly from penetration, I'd elongate the oral period so there has been sufficient buildup to the dramatic climax so to speak.

To be honest I'd rather have great sex and not cum at all than cum and have crap sex. For me, cumming is the enemy of my performance. It's the kryptonite of my sexual super powers. The thief of my libido.

I find when both people try to make the other cum first, it can actually take away from the pleasure because you are trying to perform while at the same time trying not to cum.

Being in a relationship, the best part is we can take turns on who is the performer and who is the audience.
 

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Guys with premature ejaculation issues should probably check with their doctor. Many anti-depression drugs like SSRIs, have sexual side effects... but if taken in very small doses it can have the effect of delaying orgasm in people with PE. (And if they don't have a doctor with whom they can talk freely about sexual performance issues, they need a new doctor.)

The old-school alternative is for the individual to rub one out about 45 minutes ahead of the sexual encounter -- that usually put them into what's called the "refractory period" which is where they go soft etc., but depending on the person that starts to wane after 30-45 minutes and they can get it up again but may not be fully ready to cum again. This creates a window where they can last maybe even 5 or 10 minutes.
 

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Guys with premature ejaculation issues should probably check with their doctor. Many anti-depression drugs like SSRIs, have sexual side effects... but if taken in very small doses it can have the effect of delaying orgasm in people with PE. (And if they don't have a doctor with whom they can talk freely about sexual performance issues, they need a new doctor.)

The old-school alternative is for the individual to rub one out about 45 minutes ahead of the sexual encounter -- that usually put them into what's called the "refractory period" which is where they go soft etc., but depending on the person that starts to wane after 30-45 minutes and they can get it up again but may not be fully ready to cum again. This creates a window where they can last maybe even 5 or 10 minutes.
Thanks for being completely off topic... That information is for a different thread.

I'm not looking for a solution to the problem, I'm looking for reactions and experiences in these situations.
 

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If the top is the kind of guy who is completely uninterested after he cums, then that's a problem. But if he's still willing to help me get off after the fact, I'm fine with that. I don't need penetration to get off.