I'll share a personal story about the first wife. We were married 10 years..had two great kids and i worked an extra job to put her through nursing school. A month after she graduated and had a good paying job she announced to me she wanted a divorce. I asked why. She told me she didn't love me anymore and just wanted me out. Ok...well long story short i find out after settling up child support,bills etc...she's dating some nurse friend of hers and this had been going on sometime. Well she's still single living in a different city and both kids are over 25 and still live with her...lol. And i'm married to my sweetheart of a wife. We still have a laugh or two about her...
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I'm sorry this happened to you. It happened to me to, but we were only married two years. I married a cheater and didn't know it.
Don't let those 20 years go to waste. I know the memories will be painful, but look forward rather than back. You've had some wonderful times, I'm sure. Make more wonderful times with someone who loves you more.
I have always been of the mindset that living well is indeed the best revenge.
Don't let those 20 years go to waste. I know the memories will be painful, but look forward rather than back. You've had some wonderful times, I'm sure. Make more wonderful times with someone who loves you more.
I have always been of the mindset that living well is indeed the best revenge.
I can say in my life I have not survived a relationship with a woman whom cheated on me for physical or emotional reasons. Yet, I have partners which have suffered mental breakdowns.
Now, I could take that as a positive, or a negative. Since I am the only sane one standing.........I'll take it as a positive. That I drive them insane with pleasure, or mental..................both could be the same...........slightly humourous..
Life is about positives and negatives. Lets hope you are an individual who looks on the bright side.
OP, I'm sorry to hear that happened to you. I know from experience that is very painful.
I have a small penis like you, and my wife had an affair with a very well endowed man.
It was the dishonesty that bothered me the most. Ultimately we divorced over my inability to trust her.
I wish that she could have communicated with me about her sexual needs. I believe that we could have had a good cuckold marriage.
I have a small penis like you, and my wife had an affair with a very well endowed man.
It was the dishonesty that bothered me the most. Ultimately we divorced over my inability to trust her.
I wish that she could have communicated with me about her sexual needs. I believe that we could have had a good cuckold marriage.
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I was with an abusive ex wife. Since leaving her, I have found out about a lot of infidelity including good friends. It hurts a little, but she is so digusting to me now, that I don't care. Many people think she is beautiful and she could be a freak in bed too, but I don't miss her a bit. Although she cheated with a couple guys who are larger than I am, I doubt that it had much to do with it.
I am confident in my size and skill, but more importantly, so happy that I made the right choice to kick her to the curb. It helps to have had fulfilling relationships (sexual and otherwise) since then.
I am confident in my size and skill, but more importantly, so happy that I made the right choice to kick her to the curb. It helps to have had fulfilling relationships (sexual and otherwise) since then.
I was sort of thinking that also...realizing that most of what people post on here is sort of suspect..but the way he wrote it was a little off.
Its interesting how everyone seems to know the dick size of the people their spouse cheated on them with. Is that a normal topic of conversation? lol Ive had friends who were cheated on and no ever mentioned the dick size of the person
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I'll address this. Here's the context: I was told by my ex wife about one person she cheated with. I forgave her, we moved on.
Later on, we separated for 1 year. When we got back together, we discussed who we slept with during our break. She said she slept with the same guy she had cheated on me with in addition to others. We discussed them quite matter-of-factly, as well as discussing the partners I had had. I did not ask about cock size. She just included the general descriptions of sex with each guy. One guy obviously had a very small penis, as she felt it was one of the things worth mentioning. Another guy was just a gentleman in bed, no penis details (must have been unremarkable) the last guy (the one she had cheated with previously) had a "BIG OLE dick", to use her words. I assume it was very big for her to have mentioned it, I also assume it was bigger than mine.
Truthfully that's the only one I know of that is for sure bigger, and that could be a lie, I suppose. There were many other infidelities that I have heard rumored since. Penis size of those guys was not discussed. I suspect that she may have been seeking out big dick, given that she fucked that same guy, but that could be insecurity talking. I let her sleep with one of my friends that she was really into and she said she expected him to be bigger.
umm ok....I must live in a pretty boring world...you let her sleep with a friend? Sort of dysfunctional no? I guess your situation in general is unique..but I see other commenters who also comment on the size of the guy their partners cheated with..no idea this was a thing that comes up on conversation. Well either way good luck...and maybe dont let your future partner sleep with someone else lol
This is pretty common I think. My first wife had an affair, and we talked about how well endowed he was.
I read that on a lot of the cuckold posts on here.
Wait, just curious, why are you LOLing at the fact that both kids still live with her? Aren't they your kids, too?
OP, I'm sorry this happened man. I think 100% of the time in these situations, after you give it some time to come to terms, adjust, move on, meet somebody else, I think you'll look back on it as the best possible thing that could have happened
Now you're free to find something more true instead of being trapped in a relationship with somebody who would do that behind your back. Look at it like, if you were a heroin addict, you enjoy it but it's preventing you from living life to your full potential. You get busted one day and put on drug court. That sucks, it's really hard, but it forces you off the heroin long enough to realize you're so much better off without it, and to find something more meaningful. Eventually you look back at it as one of those bumps in the road to where you're eventually going
Yeah I was kinda wondering the same thing. Kinda a weird detail to know. I guess in some cases, the guy just assumes he is hung, or the cheater is vindictive and says it as a way to hurt him, or the kind of people who come on this site are often thinking about size, so they ask. But I would guess that, in most situations, this is a topic that doesn't come up
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when my wife and me discovered our sexual things together it came out very naturally from her that she had only one guy before me and that he was "sligthly bigger" than me. not sure now if she wanted to spare me the pain or if it was really as simple as that. Basically she is happy with my average size but i'm wondering sometimes how it would feel for her to have such an enormously bigger hung guy inside hehehe...
Since i have been comparing with some really hung guys, it would be a total turn on for me to discover the difference for her...
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Since i have been comparing with some really hung guys, it would be a total turn on for me to discover the difference for her...
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From stories I have heard of the "not cheating but just want out" variety it seems that after the dust settles it comes out that, yeah, they were cheating. It's the sex outside of marriage that pulls them away and makes it easier to leave.
I used to service a guy whose wife left him. He was hot and lived across the street a few doors down. Over the space of a year I must've swallowed gallons of his cum. He'd drop by or call me over about four or five times a week. Totally a form of masturbatiion for him as he'd watch straight porn while I deep throated him and rimmed him. He never touched me once. Perfect arrangement for both of us.
what really bugs me is that we all are supposed to be adults. the adult thing to do would be for the woman to tell her current boyfriend that she is not happy for X reasons.
give the boyfriend a chance to make things better.
if things don't get better, then the woman should end the relationship.
give the boyfriend a chance to make things better.
if things don't get better, then the woman should end the relationship.
