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Do you expect his ass to be pristine clean? I mean is every guy who wud willingly be fucked, walking around with a super clean asshole, hoping to be fucked.
Or this not expected? Is it a big deal?
 
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Only speaking as a bottom, I am usually able to be ready for an anal adventure in 20 minutes but that also depends on what he wants to do. Being aware of diet and when you are going for sex is something that a bottom should know. I have started to transitition to a less meat centric diet and that helps when I clean myself out. Regardless, shit does occur and we should just remember that and not freak out!
 

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An ass is primarily designed for shitting. Digestion doesn't stop so you have to know how your body works. You have to know how to time your douching so you are both cleaned out and not sloshing with water either. Seriously, tops have no idea how easy they have it and should be more forgiving than they tend to be.

One of the features a penis head is designed for is the clearing of the contents of the hole it's fucking (essentially an evolutionary way of removing semen that may have got there from someone else so your new sperm has a better chance). So even if the bottom has prepared, there is still a possibility of shit happening especially if you are longer than average.

Most bottoms prepare if they are expecting to be fucked. Sometimes sex happens when least expected though. If I wasn't prepped, personally I wouldn't risk it. I'd offer a blowjob instead.
 

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If I am hooking up with a guy, I would expect him to be prepared. That means "pristine" clean, outside and inside. Yes, there may still end up being some minor traces; I'm a big boy, I know how bodies work, and if I were that squeamish, I wouldn't be playing around with buttholes, much less sticking my dick in them,

On the other hand, I have been with a couple of guys who didn't think twice about offering up their holes, knowing full well that they were not in the least prepared. and when I expressed dismay, they couldn't understand why I was being so demanding. NOT. OK. NOT. It's revolting, incredibly indelible (I'm glad it was their bed, not mine), reeks, and is not at all what backdoor lovin' should be.

Most bottoms, god love 'em, are more self-respecting than that, however, and are in-tune with their bodies and how they need to prepare. When done right - man, there's nothing like it!
 
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if a hookup then I'm wearing a condom and I would expect the bottom guy to have done some prep. As others have said shit happens, fortunately not that often in my experience. If with a partner or regular guy, then working together on diet, as others have said less meat centric and more fruit and veg and less beer/lager helps keep everything clean and regular. But with a regular partner if you are into sex at every opportunity then yup it will happen occasionally. Goes with the territory to some extent.
 
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The ass hole may have been designed for shitting but it can be re-purposed for near exclusive sexual use. As a bottom with a huge sex appetite, I keep my hole prepared for use (and even prelube with an oil based lube when I go out anywhere). I love when I encounter a horny guy in a bathroom and he fingers my big hole and feels the lube and knows without asking that I am clean and ready to be filled with whatever he wants to shove into me (cock or hand). Most power bottoms like me stay prepared. (and for all the OMG that is so unhealthy to stay cleaned out naysayers: I have rarely taken a natural shit in years and my rectum and colon (as heavily stuffed and sued as they are) are fine. A little yogurt with probiotic goes a long way.)
 

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But I go to the cinema and fully expect to get sucked, maybe even my asshole licked and/or sucked, but never expect to get fucked. Yet sometimes a guy will rub his dick up and down my ass crack and I think, 'damn! I haven't cleaned out, will he fuck me and will he hate that??' I don't wanna be pristine clean evertime when chances are remote that I will be fucked.
 

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I always get fucked a lot & i am always pristine clean, i think it is normal manners to come well prepared & well cleaned out, the same as taking a shower every day & i make sure many times my hole is super clean before i venture in to any kind of sex, obviously any accident can happen but luckily for me it is very very rare.

Almost all the tops that fuck me even the anon ones are amazed how my hole is so clean & pristine & i always get compliments over how amazing my ass is, i think any self respecting bttm will clean out really well before any play happens or is expected to happen, if i was dirty i would refuse to be fucked, for me being clean is super important not only for myself but also for my top who will be fucking me bareback.
 
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I always make sure my asshole is clean in case someone want's to eat/lick/suck it. But don't usually do an enema because it's so much 'work' for what prolly will not occur. I like to lather my asshole up, too with some lotion in case a guy wants to slip a finger or two up there. Mmmm!!
 

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I expect a bottom to prep. When I bottom, I make sure to prep. Being cleaned out is just customary. Being pre-lubed is super hot! I love to be able to just slide right in.

Some dudes who want to bottom do not clean out. Sometimes there are clues. Like when they are at work and looking to get fucked. Is it rude to have that conversation? I usually shy away from it. I’ve never asked a guy if he cleaned out, but maybe I should.

I’ve been with a few newbie’s, but they were hot and young so I assumed the risk. One guy was straight and it was his first time and he asked me what to do. He had no tools to prep. I said shower, use his fingers and soap. Fucking a bottom virgin was hot, but I knew it wasn’t going to be super clean. But it was worth it. Also, if you’re in your 20s, the pipes just work better. I didn’t do any prep in my 20s, and it was always fine.
 
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I don’t know about the cleaning up part.. I been fucked a lot in my lifetime.. and I have never ever got shit or anything on any of their dicks

Just depends on the person you are with that they will want you to be clean.. but if a guy douches .. and let’s it out .. there’s a chance not all the fluids will be out of his ass ..