Where can i find gay sm slaves

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After college, I'm looking to start a committed relationship with an SM guy, after my current ex cheated on me.

I don't want to use Grindr, because people on that app are only looking for one-time hookups.

I live SoCAL near OC. Any suggestions
 

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Move to NYC and use Grindr there.
It feels like every corporate lawyer who lives in Hell's Kitchen wants to be dominated and made a slave.

Actual advice: Searching for leather guys on Scruff will yield better results. The men who use that app more often indicate their desires for relationships.

After college, I'm looking to start a committed relationship with an SM guy, after my current ex cheated on me.

I don't want to use Grindr, because people on that app are only looking for one-time hookups.

I live SoCAL near OC. Any suggestions
 

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After college, I'm looking to start a committed relationship with an SM guy, after my current ex cheated on me.

I don't want to use Grindr, because people on that app are only looking for one-time hookups.

I live SoCAL near OC. Any suggestions

I am going to say good luck. Are you looking for a slave and are you a trained M or are you looking for a partner that lets the culture off the hook.

The first step to committed SM for me is the seeking of the perfect sub by the M. You must go out for him and find him and seduce him and convert him to it to make it work and last. The apps and sites are all hookups. It will be an accident of nature. But they happen. This kind of relationship is far more work than a regular one and the work is not optional. Good luck.