FortiesFun You wrote..."Sooner or later, you are going to have to give over to the idea that to find homosexuals you are going to have to compromise your stance a little..." I know that's true, but for some of us it's a comfort factor and not a compromise issue.
I found out about the "male only" nude beach, this was something I was comfortable with and visiting that beach many years ago was my break through. I love being looked at when I was younger, now I'm all scared up [just over 52" of scaring due to open heart surgery, cancer etc., etc. but I'm still here.] and a little self conscious, friends don't care and being older has some advantages, I don't need a ripped and toned body at 60, though I still look pretty good for an old man 6' 2", 250 with the older build of an Olympic Power lifter, which I was.
I found out about the "male only" nude beach, this was something I was comfortable with and visiting that beach many years ago was my break through. I love being looked at when I was younger, now I'm all scared up [just over 52" of scaring due to open heart surgery, cancer etc., etc. but I'm still here.] and a little self conscious, friends don't care and being older has some advantages, I don't need a ripped and toned body at 60, though I still look pretty good for an old man 6' 2", 250 with the older build of an Olympic Power lifter, which I was.