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Where Do Bi-Curious Guys Hook Up?
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um, not all straight people are married or otherwise in relationships...
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Look who's talking. :tongue:
No, you're the first. You must have been stalking me way back. :biggrin1: And you call me nosy. FYI, I don't have any back hair.
I agree but when you specifically seek out straight men or men who may be married that's diabolical. What purpose does it serve? There are two explanations for this type of behavior: (1) to stay connected to the straight world, and (2) a straight man is less likely to have an STD. Neither of which make any sense.
If you identify yourself as gay, why not go for gay men? Be gay and proud. Isn't that what it's all about? Are straight men stalking lesbians? No. Are straight women stalking gay men? Don't think so. And I asked how people would feel if their dad was seduced by a gay man using those steps of deception. How do you think your your mother would feel if she found out her husband (your dad) was seduced by a gay man? How would you feel if your partner was seduced by someone? I don't think anyone would feel very good at all.
And that goes back to another topic on here entitled "What happened to just plain old common decency?" It's gone--doesn't exist anymore.
I live by it.
If the relationship wasn't consensual then it would be rape. You seem to think gays have some kind of irresistible pied piper like charm that they can use to lure unsuspecting men into a web of gay sex. If only it was that easy! Once again you focus entirely on what the gay man is doing, not on what the straight married man is doing.
Hate to clue you but lots of straight women fall in love with gay men and try to lure them to the dark side. They find a guy who's sensitive, caring, romantic, maybe has some style, but they thing, "If only he wasn't gay? Maybe I can get him into bed. I'll show him what a real woman can do!"
Straight men do the same thing with lesbians, even moreso perhaps. Lesbians are the ultimate challenge, particularly if they're hot. Most lesbians have very defined personalities, are more self-aware, confident, and independent. Guys see women like that as great challenges and will go after lesbians just to see if they too can bring them over to the dark side.
And yet again you base all your moral judgments on what other people think. Whose morals are you enforcing? Your own or what you imagine everyone else's is? Something in you is terrified of public embarrassment, of what, "the neighbors might say." Either you're incredibly naive about what goes on behind all the white picket fences in your Currier & Ives bourgeois paradise or you refuse to acknowledge that every town is just another Peyton Place full of too many bored people who live with braces on their brains that they can't be happy unless they know their neighbors only think well of them. They're not living for themselves but escaping themselves, preferring to by nosy, seeking every fault in everyone else to make themselves feel superior in their small mindedness.
Hate to clue you but lots of straight women fall in love with gay men and try to lure them to the dark side. They find a guy who's sensitive, caring, romantic, maybe has some style, but they thing, "If only he wasn't gay? Maybe I can get him into bed. I'll show him what a real woman can do!"
Straight men do the same thing with lesbians, even moreso perhaps. Lesbians are the ultimate challenge, particularly if they're hot. Most lesbians have very defined personalities, are more self-aware, confident, and independent. Guys see women like that as great challenges and will go after lesbians just to see if they too can bring them over to the dark side.
And yet again you base all your moral judgments on what other people think. Whose morals are you enforcing? Your own or what you imagine everyone else's is? Something in you is terrified of public embarrassment, of what, "the neighbors might say." Either you're incredibly naive about what goes on behind all the white picket fences in your Currier & Ives bourgeois paradise or you refuse to acknowledge that every town is just another Peyton Place full of too many bored people who live with braces on their brains that they can't be happy unless they know their neighbors only think well of them. They're not living for themselves but escaping themselves, preferring to by nosy, seeking every fault in everyone else to make themselves feel superior in their small mindedness.
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Nice to see a place where bi curious men can come and get some information about how to find more bi curious men. I am very new at this but I would like to learn more and I am glad to find out that I am not alone.
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Online seems like mostly Craigslist, Grindr...or swinger sites
It can be quite a hassle finding someone compatible though and hosting is usually a big issue. I like to play with a guy once in a while but i'm not getting a room like I would with a female lol.
It can be quite a hassle finding someone compatible though and hosting is usually a big issue. I like to play with a guy once in a while but i'm not getting a room like I would with a female lol.
It should be noted that posts 1-86 date back to 2007, so much of the information might be woefully outdated.
It should also be noted that the Member jason_els passed away quite a few years ago, and deeply missed by many of the few old-timers that are still here.
It should also be noted that the Member jason_els passed away quite a few years ago, and deeply missed by many of the few old-timers that are still here.
Yes, Jason_els died a little over 4 years ago. He is greatly missed by me. I met him in person in NYC a year or two before he left us all. Brilliant man he was! RIP, my dear friend.
Since I'm a curious wm, I don't think a guy would need to 'seek' one. I'd be the one searching for a cock to try it out. Personally, I'm not attracted to men, but there seems to be certain cocks that are attractive to me. My ideal 'fantasy' cock which could compel me to wanting, or needing, to satisfy my curiosities. Of course there is also a 'fantasy' personality I need for me to want to go all in on it, too.
Steam rooms, after hours , gyms in general , though and with hot girls
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