I must be missing something, because I go out and around in my simple life and I never run into attractive women my age. im a 30 year old guy, living in a small town region in western NY , ways south of Buffalo, NY. It seems like everyone else is with everyone else. I dont care if I go to bars, god knows there are enough of them around here, There are not many impressive women in them anyways, and the few there are there, they are in groups of other women having girls night out, or hooked up with guys....I dont drink, I will have one, I know more how to pour many drinks than drink them myself. Im really not supposed to have drinks, because of medication, diabetes and stuff, but one wont kill me, Im better off with a diet soda or bottled water, I usually honestly get dehydrated at bars when im there. My work keeps me from going out many weekends. but there have got to be other ways to run into people...Im off this Sunday meaning I can go out Saturday night, but I have a cold and raspy throat, and it just seems like here I get a night to go out but I feel like shit because of the cold I have.....part of it is saving money because of gas prices. But being 30 and having a long running period of time not being lucky in love, I feel more urgency to go out as much as possible , but often times after I go home, I feel like I wasted time and money going to bars, and drank something that made me feel odd with my meds, without running into women. I feel kinda screwed, not in the fun way. I read message boards like ones on this website, and where are people finding all the hot sex. I mean, Im not hideous. Im not for everybody, not a crowd pleaser, ...but someone's got to find me somewhat attractive....but then again , how would i know if i never run into young attractive ladies to even say hello to.