Where do tgirls find guys to date?

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Hello,

I'm interested in dating tgirls. But I haven't had any luck so far. I'm not looking for a one night stand sort of thing. Would you kindly give me some tips of where and how to make meaningful connections for dating purposes? I'm on a couple of dating sites. Thanks for your input.

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Master_Blaster
 
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I met my last boyfriend on POF. And usually find nice guys to chat with through random life interactions. The biggest issue is thinking you automatically can differentiate between a trans woman and a cis woman. Quite a few seemingly great interactions with guys end up short lived when they find out I'm trans.

If you're looking for a LTR with a woman who happens to be trans stay away from "t-girl" oriented bars/events. Most of them seem to be working girls and many of them are just plain so self important that they expect more for less.

Hope this helps and good luck!
 
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Thank you for your helpful reply, Ohapotato. You raise a good point about the issue of differentiating between trans women and cis women. I used to be on POF but closed my account because they seem to be against trans people, or at least they were when I was on there. OK Cupid seems to be promising as it's welcoming to the trans community. I've always avoided tgirl oriented bars because of the working girl atmosphere; these bars seem to be directed toward hookups, which I'm not into.

Thanks again, and I wish you all the best.
 
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Thank you for your helpful reply, Ohapotato. You raise a good point about the issue of differentiating between trans women and cis women. I used to be on POF but closed my account because they seem to be against trans people, or at least they were when I was on there. OK Cupid seems to be promising as it's welcoming to the trans community. I've always avoided tgirl oriented bars because of the working girl atmosphere; these bars seem to be directed toward hookups, which I'm not into.

Thanks again, and I wish you all the best.

Thanks!

Yes, I've heard that POF had its bias but I personally didn't experience it. However, there were plenty of fish acting like dolts with hurtful or intentionally ignorant questions. I found it humorous how a "single" man suddenly became an attached make with a female partner interested in swinging. Which, on its face isn't something I'd be against, but still. A time and place.
 
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Hmmm, maybe I should give POF another try. Yeah, I too have come across a lot of rude people on the dating sites. Sorry to read that some guys treated you disrespectfully. Peace.