Where do you even find guys [bi-curious]

[Doranq]

22M . Lately I've been rather Bi-Curious. I've found the whole cock worshiping and being dominated by a man extremely appealing and sometimes more so than sex with a woman. It's something I really want to try. However I'd never ever be interested in a romantic relationship same with fucking a man, just interested in being the bottom.

Craigslist is the only thing that comes to mind... but idk, I just don't think know if that's good idea. I mean I see a lot of requests on there, and a whole lot of people that definitely are looking for what I want to do.
I'm not smooth at picking up women, so I wouldn't even know how to go after a dude I was interested in. haha the last thing I want is to get the shit kicked out of me, for well guessing wrong. You never know when someone will take offence and I'm not a big dude by any means. 5'8 125lb so , while very guy loves to think they are a badass, realistically I'll probably be the one getting the ass kicking lol.



So like is craigslist a viable option. Are there better sites or something. Maybe subtle ways I could probe if someone was gay and then I could be direct?

Totally serious question. I pre apologize if I come across ignorant. I simply do not know. I feel like the possible consequences of doing it wrong could be quiet dire at worst.So I figured I'd ask here.

All other tips and stuff are welcome to. (also this new site layout sucks, so if I missed the answer before I asked this question, sorry)

 

[brinzaulsschwul]

You haven't said where you are from and if you are looking for Internet sites that are country specific such as parsnip.ch or cottaging.co.uk then you need to say
You could try gaydar.com or download hornet, scruff, daddy, gayromeo to your smartphone and see who is around you.

Just remember to ensure whoever tops you had a condom on his cock and you have plenty of water based lube up and around your arse

 

[Doranq]

You haven't said where you are from and if you are looking for Internet sites that are country specific such as parsnip.ch or cottaging.co.uk then you need to say
You could try gaydar.com or download hornet, scruff, daddy, gayromeo to your smartphone and see who is around you.

Just remember to ensure whoever tops you had a condom on his cock and you have plenty of water based lube up and around your arse

Ah crap my bad. USA, Indiana. Definitely country specific, seems like my best bet. I'd normally edit my post... but it looks like they removed that feature for first posts.


either way thank you.

 

[henry777]

You could try apps, Scruff, Grindr, etc.

 

[keenobserver]

If you are going to try craigslist you might try backpage.com. I'm not an internet pick up guy - but that is probably a generational thing. I would look for gay venues like bars and clubs - because for me it is a chance to look someone over and get a sense of them. Risk is always a factor on line or in person. An advantage on placing an ad would be explaining what you are looking for and what your experience levels are. You could probably thin the herd of people by having it out there at the start. The last thing you want is someone who also is very inexperienced. It can be problematic - but I'm sure there are exceptions. Good luck.

 

[a3sthetic]

I would suggest a gay sauna. You aren't committed to anything. It's annonimous. It's a controlled environment. It's purely sex. Everyone there is there for one reason. No getting sprung by old/fake photos or being stood up. You can just watch as well.

I would suggest getting used to anal play before trying any form of anonymous hook up. You really want to be able to take a human sized dildo before you try the real thing.

 

[Doranq]

I would suggest a gay sauna. You aren't committed to anything. It's annonimous. It's a controlled environment. It's purely sex. Everyone there is there for one reason. No getting sprung by old/fake photos or being stood up. You can just watch as well.

I would suggest getting used to anal play before trying any form of anonymous hook up. You really want to be able to take a human sized dildo before you try the real thing.

Oh snap, I didn't even know those even existed. I googled one just to kinda find out what it really was. There's even one in Indianapolis which isn't that far away.

I'll definitely try to get a dildo. Probably gonna go for one thats 5 inches/5.5 inches girth. I remember I tried one that was 6.... that was like not gonna happen. It just happened to be there and I was like YOLO.

 

[notN2pussy]

I have done ok with CL, just have to test the waters a bit and get to know if you can before the meet?

 

[WRJcock]

Manhunt, Squirt, Adan4Adam might give you better options than Craigslist

 

[a3sthetic]

Oh snap, I didn't even know those even existed. I googled one just to kinda find out what it really was. There's even one in Indianapolis which isn't that far away.

I'll definitely try to get a dildo. Probably gonna go for one thats 5 inches/5.5 inches girth. I remember I tried one that was 6.... that was like not gonna happen. It just happened to be there and I was like YOLO.

You should buy a few of gradually increasing girth so you can work your way up to 5.5. Stick to body safe materials. Avoid porous real skin type toys. Buy a douche bulb and water based lube while you are at it as well.

 

[905339]

I am in the same situation as you. I've had my luck with Craigslist. Only was disappointed twice. Rest were amazing. You can also try saunas. I go to the gym in the open showers or steam room till I find someone interested

 

[hvdude]

Just be careful. Being a bottom doesn't just involve lying there and getting fucked. There's more to it emotionally and, obviously, physically. You have to think of what happens after. Even while the apps that have been mentioned offer no-strings-attached sex, you have to decide how you're going to feel afterwards. Too often straight guys go out to "play" and get a lot more than they bargained for. It's not as easy as you think it is.

 

[Notaes]

I would like to ask a gay man what it is like to be fucked in the ass. I have watched some gay porn and the bottom guy appears to be in a trance it feels so good. As best you can if you have been fucked could you describe as best you can what it feels like? It have been thinking about it and would like to get some feedback if possible. Thank you n advance.

 

[Doranq]

Just be careful. Being a bottom doesn't just involve lying there and getting fucked. There's more to it emotionally and, obviously, physically. You have to think of what happens after. Even while the apps that have been mentioned offer no-strings-attached sex, you have to decide how you're going to feel afterwards. Too often straight guys go out to "play" and get a lot more than they bargained for. It's not as easy as you think it is.

more than they bargained for. Like the other guy catches feelings for them or something? or maybe they catch feelings for the other man? Or do you mean like taking the dick is too hard? Like what do you mean. I want to be prepared. i figured I'd probably just start with sucking dick. Then move to anal... unless he has an exceptionally nice one. Some idk, just makes me feel as this tsunami of submission has just flooded my body.

 

[hvdude]

I would like to ask a gay man what it is like to be fucked in the ass. I have watched some gay porn and the bottom guy appears to be in a trance it feels so good. As best you can if you have been fucked could you describe as best you can what it feels like? It have been thinking about it and would like to get some feedback if possible. Thank you n advance.

I think you should start another thread, not embed yours in this one.

 

[hvdude]

more than they bargained for. Like the other guy catches feelings for them or something? or maybe they catch feelings for the other man? Or do you mean like taking the dick is too hard? Like what do you mean. I want to be prepared. i figured I'd probably just start with sucking dick. Then move to anal... unless he has an exceptionally nice one. Some idk, just makes me feel as this tsunami of submission has just flooded my body.

Having another man's penis inside you is VERY personal. Allowing another man inside you, not necessarily dominate you per se, is wonderful and, yes, can cause you to feel something emotional. If the "top" does his job right being penetrated might be slightly uncomfortable at first but then becomes awesome. Submission is something different - allowing a man (or woman) to control you and tell you what to do - and is more of a fetish. If you're looking for someone to tell you "Get on your knees. Suck my dick. Spread you legs. etc" that falls more into the BDSM category.

If you're talking about being more passive during sex that's something else entirely.