Where Have All The Virgins gone?

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I have never been called pathetic for being a virgin. In fact I usually get something along the lines of "Aww that's cute" oddly enough.
That can be just as demeaning to some of us. It feels like someone talking to a 3 yr old.
 

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That can be just as demeaning to some of us. It feels like someone talking to a 3 yr old.
But we're freakin' angels compared to those fuckers over there! Although I will add, that being a gay or female virgin is just abnormal! In either case, it's a case of spreading legs and scoring easier than it is for me to click "submit reply".
 

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For me, back when I was in school and all my friends were experimenting I was just not interested in getting laid. I was too focused on hobbies and friends. Now that I'm in my late 20's I'm starting to have an interest in sex but at my age, I'm afraid of looking stupid because I don't know certain things I should have learned years ago. I think I just developed really late. Because of this, I find it easier to make excuses and avoid anything sexual. That and some self-esteem issues just make the problem worse. Life would be so much easier if I wasn't horny all the time.
 

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I'm a virgin again. I had my virginity restored.

Every 5 years, there's a Restoration of Virginity ritual held in Tibet, with an assistant of the Dalai LLama officiating.
 

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I'm a virgin again. I had my virginity restored.

Every 5 years, there's a Restoration of Virginity ritual held in Tibet, with an assistant of the Dalai LLama officiating.

I guess the ASSistant wasn't exiled then.

How people overthink things. If you want to do it there is always a way.

I am not big on waiting for the right moment/person thing. Sometimes life just takes paths which don't match the typical. For the record I first had sex at 26. Have been catching up since then :wink:
 

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I guess the ASSistant wasn't exiled then.

How people overthink things. If you want to do it there is always a way.

I am not big on waiting for the right moment/person thing. Sometimes life just takes paths which don't match the typical. For the record I first had sex at 26. Have been catching up since then :wink:

Namaste!

For you, I wouldn't mind losing my virginity again. But, India is rather far aware.
 
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Still a virgin. Not for lack of trying. There was a girl last friday, but my buddies seriously warned me I could catch an STD
 

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Still technically a virgin. I haven't dated in forever (and when I was, I was too naive to believe that she was ready to have sex) and I'm not really into one-night stands. So I wait. But that's fine. I'm only 19. I have plenty of time to catch up. ;)
 

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Still technically a virgin. I haven't dated in forever (and when I was, I was too naive to believe that she was ready to have sex) and I'm not really into one-night stands. So I wait. But that's fine. I'm only 19. I have plenty of time to catch up. ;)

Agree but I'm 21. And knowing people I'm friends with being a virgin at 21 is not a good look.