I found this site on a google search. I came looking for people having the same problems I have, and instead find people bragging about their penis size, and looking for ways to get a bigger penis or show a bigger bulge in their clothes. Does anyone else here find women so intimidated by their size that they can only find a sex partner two or three times a year that will accomodate them? Is anyone else embarrassed by the size of the bulge in everything they wear, and wish they had an average or slightly larger than average penis? I would think that a penis over 9 inches would universally be a handicap in many ways, and with the number of people here claiming a penis in my size range, larger then 11 inches, I would expect a lot of people to be looking for help, rather than bragging or wanting to get even bigger. Maybe I just need to browse the site more, or maybe there are a lot of wishful thinkers here.