For the first time; inside her. It's more intimate (IMO)...
I agree. Unless it was a one night stand and you don't plan on seeing each other then who cares.
But if this with a woman you really like and look to extend your relationship with her - I would think cumming while still inside her is very intimate and sensual. For me, the women I've had sex with for the first time all had orgasms while I was inside them during sex (except when I lost my virginity). Seeing their chest rise and fall with the quickening of her breaths; holding me tighter with her arms wrapped around my back; her increased moaning and whimpering; or hearing her say she's cumming; and then the rhythmic, involuntary muscles contractions of her pussy while I'm still thrusting into her -I get to FEEL and see all that when I make her cum. I would think some women would enjoy the same reward. Hearing my quickening breaths; feeling the increased pace of my thrusting inside her; the low gruttal moan as I bury my head in her neck or chest; the thickening of my cock as I get ready to explode - then she gets to feel me thrust deeply inside her as my penis twitches uncontrollably while still inside her - shooting my load and crying out in pleasure.
I would like to think that some women enjoy seeing and FEELING this happening. If there is a condom on, she won't be able to have the added benefit of feeling the warm rush of cum being ejaculated inside her, but she at least gets everything else. That would be a graphic depiction of why I enjoy cumming inside women vs. ON them.
Ladies, your thoughts on this?
Simba