Where to find sex?

[HornyPuto69]

Hey guys, haven't had sex in 6 months and I am so fucking Horny. However on Grindr and on Sniffles no one actually has sex, they just talk about it and demand pictures. It feels as tho I'll need effective has e sex again. I'm a very sexual guy. I need sex like people need food and it doesn't seem like people are having it. Mainly it seems to be guys looking for oral, but I'm an anal kind of guy. How do people find sex parties and other sex related activities? I would love to find a place where I could eat ass and get fucked. I live in Montreal, which is porn central, but no one has sex. Just jerking off and getting sucked off. I've thought about hiring a sex worker for a couple of hours and filming it for the next dry spell. Any advice where to get actual sex and not just online time wasters?

 

[theplayerking]

Montreal had some good saunas-bathhouses the last time I was there. The locations should be noted on Sniffies. You can also see how popular they are and when to go based on the Sniffies users that post their location.

 

[BiCurious1971]

Hey guys, haven't had sex in 6 months and I am so fucking Horny. However on Grindr and on Sniffles no one actually has sex, they just talk about it and demand pictures. It feels as tho I'll need effective has e sex again. I'm a very sexual guy. I need sex like people need food and it doesn't seem like people are having it. Mainly it seems to be guys looking for oral, but I'm an anal kind of guy. How do people find sex parties and other sex related activities? I would love to find a place where I could eat ass and get fucked. I live in Montreal, which is porn central, but no one has sex. Just jerking off and getting sucked off. I've thought about hiring a sex worker for a couple of hours and filming it for the next dry spell. Any advice where to get actual sex and not just online time wasters?

Honestly, I’m horny as hell too. I’m new to this and would also love to be fucked in the ass as well.

However, I still want to suck a cock and have a guy cum in my mouth. So, I guess I’m in that category of guys you’re talking about.

 

[BrownLadLondon]

Horny as hell here too and want a strong dom man to make love to me rough and passionate but UK based sadly.

 

[chrisrobin]

Getting "SEX" should be easy if thats all you want, anonymous sex isn't that hard to find, but craving for love or attention, now that's another story.
I agree, the apps exct are crap for the real thing, to many chatters and not enough doers!

 

[jbf78]

Hey guys, haven't had sex in 6 months and I am so fucking Horny. However on Grindr and on Sniffles no one actually has sex, they just talk about it and demand pictures. It feels as tho I'll need effective has e sex again. I'm a very sexual guy. I need sex like people need food and it doesn't seem like people are having it. Mainly it seems to be guys looking for oral, but I'm an anal kind of guy. How do people find sex parties and other sex related activities? I would love to find a place where I could eat ass and get fucked. I live in Montreal, which is porn central, but no one has sex. Just jerking off and getting sucked off. I've thought about hiring a sex worker for a couple of hours and filming it for the next dry spell. Any advice where to get actual sex and not just online time wasters?

Well… Don’t you have a regular scratcher

 

[HornyPuto69]

Montreal had some good saunas-bathhouses the last time I was there. The locations should be noted on Sniffies. You can also see how popular they are and when to go based on the Sniffies users that post their location.

Funny enough man, I used to work at a bathhouse when I was in university, my first job in Montreal. We used to have theme nights and I used to work 'naturiste' days, and also fetiche days. I would wear these knee high leather boots and thongs. I used to get FUCKED so MUCH. Holy shit, I would finish my shifts and so much cum would squirt from my ass. The bathhouse closed down in 2018, and honestly this is when sex started drying up for me. I got a 'real' job when I ended my post-grad. I spent a summer bumming around, this was summer of 2018, and I started going on Grindr, and it was slim pickings.

Today, I just got home from a bathhouse. No sex. Lots of hot dudes, none of them gave me the time, only grandpapas, and I really wasn't budging. There's a bathhouse I go to here every summer where they have a terrase where you can suntan, I wear my thong and just lie there for two hours. No sex. Then I went down to the saunas and showers, no sex. The guys I wanted to get with did not pay attention. That's really the reason I don't do bathhouse, cuz it's hit or miss and unless I'm doing something else there, it seems like a waste of money for a gamble.

I'm on 7 months, no sex... probably going into my 8th.

 

[HornyPuto69]

Getting "SEX" should be easy if thats all you want, anonymous sex isn't that hard to find, but craving for love or attention, now that's another story.
I agree, the apps exct are crap for the real thing, to many chatters and not enough doers!

See this is my problem. I think anonymous sex is pointless and boring. I hate douching, but I do it for the sex. But when the sex is some guy that just walks in, pokes me a couple of times and then fucks off and I don't even get to see his face, it's just pointless to me. Firstly, in order for me to me turned on, I NEED a face I'm attracted. More than the body the face is the MOST important thing to me.
Second, sex to me is an experience. So anonymous sex doesn't do it for me. If I'm gonna have sex with a guy, I NEED the experience and feel of the body. I want to kiss, I want to touch, lick, I want to eat ass, I want to have my ass eaten to, I want the man on all fours, suck his ass and cock, I want him to play with my hole, sex is an experience. Quickies don't do it for me. To me, anonymous sex I may as well stick my dildo to my wall and back into it while watching porn.

This is where the idea of hiring a sex worker is really appealing to me now, because at least I'm paying for a guy to do exactly what I need.

 

[HornyPuto69]

Getting "SEX" should be easy if thats all you want, anonymous sex isn't that hard to find, but craving for love or attention, now that's another story.
I agree, the apps exct are crap for the real thing, to many chatters and not enough doers!

And yes! A lot of chatting and not enough doing. The other thing I find on the apps are pic/vid collectors. You exchange some vids and pics then they just ghost. Which is honestly why I've started posting my pics/vids online, because randos have collected them anyway, with a promise of good sex that never comes through, so it may as well be public domain. Who knows, maybe I'll finally find sex here. I've also starting camming when I'm bored and horny on Chaturbate. Not regularly, but when I just need at least a guys cheering me on.

 

[HornyPuto69]

Well… Don’t you have a regular scratcher

No

 

[elklindoxxx]

Hey guys, haven't had sex in 6 months and I am so fucking Horny. However on Grindr and on Sniffles no one actually has sex, they just talk about it and demand pictures. It feels as tho I'll need effective has e sex again. I'm a very sexual guy. I need sex like people need food and it doesn't seem like people are having it. Mainly it seems to be guys looking for oral, but I'm an anal kind of guy. How do people find sex parties and other sex related activities? I would love to find a place where I could eat ass and get fucked. I live in Montreal, which is porn central, but no one has sex. Just jerking off and getting sucked off. I've thought about hiring a sex worker for a couple of hours and filming it for the next dry spell. Any advice where to get actual sex and not just online time wasters?

Go to your local masturbation club. I've been going since my college days and you'll be meeting many horny men. And they are always looking for new 'members', figuratively and literally.

If there is interest, members exchange contact information so they can get together. I've done it with other members and we had sex. So I would suggest that you go ahead and find a location in your area and try it out.

 

[chrisrobin]

See this is my problem. I think anonymous sex is pointless and boring. I hate douching, but I do it for the sex. But when the sex is some guy that just walks in, pokes me a couple of times and then fucks off and I don't even get to see his face, it's just pointless to me. Firstly, in order for me to me turned on, I NEED a face I'm attracted. More than the body the face is the MOST important thing to me.
Second, sex to me is an experience. So anonymous sex doesn't do it for me. If I'm gonna have sex with a guy, I NEED the experience and feel of the body. I want to kiss, I want to touch, lick, I want to eat ass, I want to have my ass eaten to, I want the man on all fours, suck his ass and cock, I want him to play with my hole, sex is an experience. Quickies don't do it for me. To me, anonymous sex I may as well stick my dildo to my wall and back into it while watching porn.

This is where the idea of hiring a sex worker is really appealing to me now, because at least I'm paying for a guy to do exactly what I need.

Thre are plenty of places, or should be, were you can meet a man and go back with him and enjoy the joys of naked sex with lots of body contact, kissing anal penetration and cum.
Weekends and some evenings I'd do the bars and disco's, have a good time and if I was lucky go home with a guy. Sometimes it worked out really well, a cue of disasters, and even some return bookings as it were. Thats the way you begin a relationship, its a testing time.
If I was really horny I'd find a place where I could get anonymous sex which was always better than a wank.

 

[chrisrobin]

And yes! A lot of chatting and not enough doing. The other thing I find on the apps are pic/vid collectors. You exchange some vids and pics then they just ghost. Which is honestly why I've started posting my pics/vids online, because randos have collected them anyway, with a promise of good sex that never comes through, so it may as well be public domain. Who knows, maybe I'll finally find sex here. I've also starting camming when I'm bored and horny on Chaturbate. Not regularly, but when I just need at least a guys cheering me on.

Some of these guys are just there to chat you up while they get their jollies, which is why I dont waste time on the time wasting dating apps. At the end of the day its the meet in the flesh that counts, thats when you find the pictures offered arent like the guy you've gone out of your way to meet.

 

[eridim]

You are asking for a lot. Every point you make about what you want in sex is one step more that takes you farther from getting sex. That's why you're not having so much. If the questions is where to get sex, lots of places and lots of guys willing to do it anonymously poke you and go. But for every additional request you add, it's a filter out for your options.

I agree though that getting sex is more difficult, and I've noticed that this change happened after corona. It seems like people are way more distant, but it could also be because I used to top more before corona, now I bottom too.

As a top, it's relatively easy to find someone to fuck. Apps are full of guys wanting to have their asses filled. As a bottom it's another story. The ratio of bottoms:top is way disproportionate and I've only noticed it after I started bottoming. Can't blame them, gays are gay because they enjoy a good dick up the ass. Total tops could pass for straight easily and probably don't even realize they are gay until a revelation happens.

But even when you have a top who's only role is to fuck you, they don't always fuck. I notice this also as a top, I don't always want to penetrate my bottom. But as a bottom, I damn right want to be dicked down right there and then. I don't know why that happens. I'm suspecting performance anxiety, exhaustion, physical activity etc. As a top, you do most of the job, you're the "active" one, you need to move yourself and find the angles and please your bottom, who's the "passive" subject, receiver of the action. By default, we're all averse to exhausting our energy levels and why would you choose an activity where you're working out when you could be confortable sitting down and being the passive receiver through oral for example. But even when you overcome that and start getting active, you still need to perform, stay hard for long enough, cum for your bottom etc. These are all pressures on you as a guy to deliver that performance. It's always a decision between keeping the status quo (how horny am I) or getting that release (how much effort do I need to do to get that release?). The pain to keep the status quo needs to be bigger than the effort to change it.

We live in very comfortable times, where porn is at the swipe of a finger, a real person is at your door at the click of a message etc. Why should a top go the extra effort to get that release unless he is really that horny? In most cases, you release your hornyness before it reaches its full extents by masturbating, so we never really get to the full extent of our hornyness. So guys don't always wanna fuck.

 

[HornyPuto69]

Go to your local masturbation club. I've been going since my college days and you'll be meeting many horny men. And they are always looking for new 'members', figuratively and literally.

If there is interest, members exchange contact information so they can get together. I've done it with other members and we had sex. So I would suggest that you go ahead and find a location in your area and try it out.

I joined BateWorld in the hopes of finding something. I saw a post from a group in Montreal, they actually meet at the bathhouse I was at last week. Well, he's got RULES. Apparently assholes revolt the guy who organizes this, no one is allowed to show or touch their assholes, it's strictly penis stroking. So, I guess I'm not welcomed as I am an anal masturbator. In order to cum, I need to finger or dildo my ass. I'm a hands free anal cummer and this guy group made it very clear I'm not welcome there.

 

[hoodooyoodoo]

Go to your local masturbation club. I've been going since my college days and you'll be meeting many horny men. And they are always looking for new 'members', figuratively and literally.

If there is interest, members exchange contact information so they can get together. I've done it with other members and we had sex. So I would suggest that you go ahead and find a location in your area and try it out.

Where does one find a local masturbation club...do they advertise? seriously, I have never heard of one other than groups of friends which I am not lucky enough to know.

 

[elklindoxxx]

I joined BateWorld in the hopes of finding something. I saw a post from a group in Montreal, they actually meet at the bathhouse I was at last week. Well, he's got RULES. Apparently assholes revolt the guy who organizes this, no one is allowed to show or touch their assholes, it's strictly penis stroking. So, I guess I'm not welcomed as I am an anal masturbator. In order to cum, I need to finger or dildo my ass. I'm a hands free anal cummer and this guy group made it very clear I'm not welcome there.

The expectation that men have when they go to a masturbation club....is to masturbate. Alot of guys don't like to be touched in such a manner. People have their boundaries and we need to respect them. Nothing is stopping you from asking someone out on a date if you are interested in doing something else.

 

[HornyPuto69]

The expectation that men have when they go to a masturbation club....is to masturbate. Alot of guys don't like to be touched in such a manner. People have their boundaries and we need to respect them. Nothing is stopping you from asking someone out on a date if you are interested in doing something else.

What? Who said a ythibg about touching anyone?

 

[Dudes Dude]

Hey man, I recently found a site called Fetlife. I have had several offers from men who are out to have some fun of all kinds. You can search your specific area for dudes to do what you are mutually looking for. I hope this helps and good luck man.

 

[brattylg]

The expectation that men have when they go to a masturbation club....is to masturbate. Alot of guys don't like to be touched in such a manner. People have their boundaries and we need to respect them. Nothing is stopping you from asking someone out on a date if you are interested in doing something else.

LOUDER PLEASE !!!!! boundaries guys.