Where To Start? Any Advice For A Beginner?

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Hi! I'm 20, and my cock dimensions are 6.75" x 5.25". I know I am already large and bigger than average, but I'd love to be even bigger if possible. 8" x 6" sounds like a true monster size. Is that possible?

What is your experience with PE? what worked and what didn't? I looked at the beginners thread, but it seems a bit old, and just wanted to hear what more people thought. Should I even consider PE yet at 20?

I feel like I have pretty good control over the muscles for kegels. I've never tried jelqs, I've read both good and bad things about them. I have no clue about pumps. How does someone start in all this?

I know probably the best thing to do would be lose weight, hydrate, eat better, and exercise more. I'm already trying to work on that, but is there anything I can do for the betterment of my cock?
 

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I'm always skeptical of claims by the "dietary supplement" industry, since they're not held accountable to the FDA and their "studies" are usually nothing more than anecdotal with no controls to check for placebo effects - and this seems especially true for vitamin E. It's also hard to imagine how topically-applied vitamin E oil could penetrate all the way to the cavernosa, the chambers that fill with blood during an erection. And you don't need circulation in the veins, the blood enters via arteries and the veins are blocked - that's what keeps the blood trapped and your erection hard (that's how cock rings work).

That being said, "jelqing" or "milking" a semi-hard cock (the veins are still partially open) does cause circulation of blood and, by increasing the pressure in the cavernosa can cause the micro-tearing of its tissue - which then heal slightly larger than before (same idea for increasing the size of muscles through exercise). This milking also stretches the suspensory ligaments that affect length - except that the micro-tearing is more difficult and takes more time because ligaments are very tough tissue.

Personally, I "milk" my semi-hard cock in the shower once in a while but, primarily I depend on pumping. Unfortunately, I didn't discover pumping until my late forties (via a friend whose doctor prescribed one after a bicycle accident that injured his groin). I also liked how it feels. I've been pumping fairly regularly, aiming for a 15-minute session at least 3 days per week. Over the 25 years of pumping, I've gained about 2 inches in length and a bit over 2 inches in girth - permanent gains. I started with a pretty average size of 5.5 x 4.5 and I'm now at about 7.5 x 6.5. Of course, immediately after a pumping session, the girth will be even larger because of temporary edema - but that goes away in 6 or 8 hours. Gains from pumping - or any regimen for that matter - takes a lot of time. It's not like exercising to develop killer biceps - muscles respond much quicker than cavernosa tissue or ligaments. I only wish I'd started pumping when I was younger. Note that pumping is FDA approved as an ED treatment. For ED, the cock is pumped up for 5 or 10 minutes - then an elastic cock ring is applied at the base of the cock to trap the blood keeping it hard. The FDA even has a website with instructions and cautions (like leaving the ring on for more than 30 minutes). Pumping to increase size is something to start gradually. At first, there's some pain as the skin is stretched tight when pumped up. So both the time and "pressure" (actually vacuum) is increased over a period of weeks as your skin also grows to adapt. But I enjoy the feeling of pumping, love looking down at my larger than ever tool, and the look of my "freshly pumped" cock in jeans and the looks my bulge gets in public. All good for the ego and in overcoming that "inadequate" feeling I always had in the high-school locker room. Of course, some guys are lucky to be "show-ers" (nearly as big soft as hard) while others, like me, are "grow-ers" looking very small when soft. For me, as a gay "top" man, size is definitely a big deal.

Anyway, that's my experience and considered opinions. I hope it helps you decide what direction to take.
 

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I'm always skeptical of claims by the "dietary supplement" industry, since they're not held accountable to the FDA and their "studies" are usually nothing more than anecdotal with no controls to check for placebo effects - and this seems especially true for vitamin E. It's also hard to imagine how topically-applied vitamin E oil could penetrate all the way to the cavernosa, the chambers that fill with blood during an erection. And you don't need circulation in the veins, the blood enters via arteries and the veins are blocked - that's what keeps the blood trapped and your erection hard (that's how cock rings work).

I might do more reading online but yeah, supplements and oils have never sounded like a good or proven idea. I'll have to look into pumping, didn't know the FDA had anything on it. Thanks for the input!
 

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I'm always skeptical of claims by the "dietary supplement" industry, since they're not held accountable to the FDA and their "studies" are usually nothing more than anecdotal with no controls to check for placebo effects - and this seems especially true for vitamin E. It's also hard to imagine how topically-applied vitamin E oil could penetrate all the way to the cavernosa, the chambers that fill with blood during an erection. And you don't need circulation in the veins, the blood enters via arteries and the veins are blocked - that's what keeps the blood trapped and your erection hard (that's how cock rings work).

That being said, "jelqing" or "milking" a semi-hard cock (the veins are still partially open) does cause circulation of blood and, by increasing the pressure in the cavernosa can cause the micro-tearing of its tissue - which then heal slightly larger than before (same idea for increasing the size of muscles through exercise). This milking also stretches the suspensory ligaments that affect length - except that the micro-tearing is more difficult and takes more time because ligaments are very tough tissue.

Personally, I "milk" my semi-hard cock in the shower once in a while but, primarily I depend on pumping. Unfortunately, I didn't discover pumping until my late forties (via a friend whose doctor prescribed one after a bicycle accident that injured his groin). I also liked how it feels. I've been pumping fairly regularly, aiming for a 15-minute session at least 3 days per week. Over the 25 years of pumping, I've gained about 2 inches in length and a bit over 2 inches in girth - permanent gains. I started with a pretty average size of 5.5 x 4.5 and I'm now at about 7.5 x 6.5. Of course, immediately after a pumping session, the girth will be even larger because of temporary edema - but that goes away in 6 or 8 hours. Gains from pumping - or any regimen for that matter - takes a lot of time. It's not like exercising to develop killer biceps - muscles respond much quicker than cavernosa tissue or ligaments. I only wish I'd started pumping when I was younger. Note that pumping is FDA approved as an ED treatment. For ED, the cock is pumped up for 5 or 10 minutes - then an elastic cock ring is applied at the base of the cock to trap the blood keeping it hard. The FDA even has a website with instructions and cautions (like leaving the ring on for more than 30 minutes). Pumping to increase size is something to start gradually. At first, there's some pain as the skin is stretched tight when pumped up. So both the time and "pressure" (actually vacuum) is increased over a period of weeks as your skin also grows to adapt. But I enjoy the feeling of pumping, love looking down at my larger than ever tool, and the look of my "freshly pumped" cock in jeans and the looks my bulge gets in public. All good for the ego and in overcoming that "inadequate" feeling I always had in the high-school locker room. Of course, some guys are lucky to be "show-ers" (nearly as big soft as hard) while others, like me, are "grow-ers" looking very small when soft. For me, as a gay "top" man, size is definitely a big deal.

Anyway, that's my experience and considered opinions. I hope it helps you decide what direction to take.

Astounding advice! The only thing I want to add to that is safety when when it comes to pumping or jelqing. When jelqing the purpose isn't to pull like you're stringing taffy. And when pumping as he stated make sure you have a guage and a proper sized pump.

I recommend Thich Wall Cylinder ( not a promo ) because of their quality and sturdiness of their pumps. They also have a measurement part so that you get the right size. So if you wanted to you could get the measurements and go find something cheaper.

Heat is always important in my opinion when it comes to PE. Because when it's cold you know that our dicks like to run and hide for warmth. Heat from a rice sock, wet rag or heat lamp will keep the tissue soft and more acceptable when it comes to stretching. Also, jelq in a warm environment and I feel heat is beneficial for pumping too.
 

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Trimming or shaving your pubes will help create a better seal. And if you're going to jelq, use coconut oil to help your hand glide and it makes your cock feel great after.
 
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Hi! I'm 20, and my cock dimensions are 6.75" x 5.25". I know I am already large and bigger than average, but I'd love to be even bigger if possible. 8" x 6" sounds like a true monster size. Is that possible?

What is your experience with PE? what worked and what didn't? I looked at the beginners thread, but it seems a bit old, and just wanted to hear what more people thought. Should I even consider PE yet at 20?

I feel like I have pretty good control over the muscles for kegels. I've never tried jelqs, I've read both good and bad things about them. I have no clue about pumps. How does someone start in all this?

I know probably the best thing to do would be lose weight, hydrate, eat better, and exercise more. I'm already trying to work on that, but is there anything I can do for the betterment of my cock?


Get yourself the bathmate, take things slow and have fun brother!
 
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