Where To Take Her?

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  1. Incocknito

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    In the daytime? I think not
    I'd rather do you afterschool like some homework...am I gettin U hot?
    In my bedroom? No! Cos then we'd have to stop
    I'd rather wait til everyone's fast asleep and do it in the kitchen on the tabletop.

    But seriously...where are places to take a girl? Besides the movies and bowling (which she doesn't like) I can't think of anywhere. I mean I would take her away somewhere for a weekend or something but I don't know where...

    This is wishful thinking on my part because I probably won't get another date. But for future reference...where might one take a date? I mean somewhere where perhaps you could talk, not like the movies where you are there more to watch than to talk.

    We've done restaurants and stuff too.
     
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    Art galleries do it for me.
     
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    I don't think she's that sort of girl though. All she does is go to the gym a lot.

    She likes going to the pictures but I need a change, I need to talk to her. I suppose restaurants are on option but I'm getting sick of them.

    Any really 'whacky' or off the wall ideas? Something that most people don't do but that is conducive to communication.
     
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    Go ice skating / roller-blading - ooo wait! I know! Paint-balling!
     
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    in total agreement on the art galleries. odd museums. open air markets. the big bad outdoors. break it out old school take her roller skating.

    i like the free range adventure. pick a direction and start walking. zero pressure or expectations. ya get to talk. if you watch her you'll notice what interests her and you might get more ideas.

    oh movies in the park. live shows are bliss.

    rock climbing. sporting centers or the like usually have rock walls and all the equipment you need. if very much fun. not so much for the talking but all physical activity always horns me out.

    ML

    adding on to the list: paint ball. batting cages. mini-golf with bets and mild shit talk.

    my absolute favorite and completely strange/me - the aquarium.
     
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    Make dinner for her at your place, presupposing you can cook. It's a great way to have fun and just hang out with her.
     
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    If she goes the the gym, then she probably likes the outdoors - go hiking, caving, or camping. the caving one would be interesting... go and get all muddy/dirty and you can have fun exploring together. It's kind of scary and she would hopefully cling to you.

    Or, how about just finding some old dirt road or some old makeout spot and go fog the windows up?
     
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    Buy a travel or tourist guide for your area. There should be lots of suggestions in there.
     
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    If she likes cooking too, then invite her over and make dinner together. Cooking together is supposed to be a bonding event... but it is probably a better event to do mid relationship instead of when you are just getting to know her (IMHO).

    Don't know where you are at in your relationship.

    If talking is the issue that you seek... then just set out to do nothing. Like others have said, just start walking and talking.... Or, a museum.... Or, if gas prices are not an issue then get in the car and hit the highway (especially if you live in a city where there is a loop you can get on). The car is a great place to be. It confines you to the area, and the person, and you can't just leave. But, maybe I am just a weirdo.
     
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    I've always liked the car.
    I'd say if she likes the gym, maybe you can get in a walk with her and walk her to like...the biggest hotel, or mid point of the city and take her to the top floor. That'll open room to talk about at least the city and eventually eachother. :)

    She'll point at places she's been, or where she would like to go...or interest her. It sort of ascends the point of the "walk and talk".
     
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    all really good suggstions so far.
    what about renting kayaks or a row boat if its warm, the beach is always fun. if there's snow - go skiing, downhill or x-country. what about a sporting event?
     
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    ive always wondered what to do in the cold, though? its too cold to take walks. got to find a cool place to go inside.
     
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    Something to mention is that its cold her about eight days out of the week :tongue:

    And I don't live in a big city and there are no canoes anywhere for about a hundred miles. I am near a big city but don't know many places to go there. I mean we could walk around the city but again its cold.

    Also I can't skate or ice skate either :redface:. I mean I can but not very well.
     
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    Its not bad to suck at ice-skating. I really dont know how to ice-skate at all, and still want to do it with a girl just to fall on my ass. I personally dont find it bad to end up falling infront of a girl, but I sort of have a love-hate with being vunerable and silly, lol. So it's no big deal, at least to me.

    But in terms of the cold thing, I just was asking, but thought up an idea of possibly just going to a Starbucks and ordering something.
     
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    hmm.
    it's cold which means that for now it has to be an inside thing. the cooking for her is great. i have had great success with that one.
    do you ever go to the gym to workout with her?
     
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    working out with girls for me has been fun.
    kind of hard to focus, but fun.
     
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    No I don't go to the gym. For the price she pays ($500 a year ish) I could practically turn a room in my house into a gym.

    I will see about cooking for her...now we play the waiting game.
     
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    Why spend money? Go for a walk, to the park, to the library, visit a good friend for lunch, go to meet/visit the parents of this new family you may soon be marrying into.
     
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    Fuck man - who said anything about marriage?

    And the Library? On a date? Really?
     
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    Find out what she likes to do, and ask her out to do it. Find excuses to spend time with her, and common interests are those excuses.

    If she likes going to the gym, go to the gym and work out with her. Impress her with your skill at a Nautilus...and showing off your muscles can't hurt!

    I went out with a girl who was a fiend on the basketball court. So we dated and played a lot of basketball, one on one.
     
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