Where Would Be The Best Place To Find A Bi Guy For A Mmf Threesome?

[Haze89]

Hypothetically speaking, if I was to get my girlfriend to agree to a MMF threesome between us with a preferably Bi guy. Where's the best place to find such a person? Obviously good looking and clean etc.
I'd be concerned about finding someone strange or a lot of timewasters!
I say hypothetically because I can't see this happening. My partner probably would never be up for it. Maybe when we're into our 40s!

 

[hotbidan]

Once you find out let me know! My girl is finally at the point where she wants to see me with another guy, we just can't seem to find one we both agree on.

 

[deleted1338543]

Depending on where you live, bars/clubs near the arts districts are a good choice. My hometown has a bar that's not technically a gay bar (I guess) where all the theater/orchestra/ballet guys hang out. We all laugh that it's the bi bar. Places like that, where you can strike up conversations in person without it being awkward for being too straight or too gay, could be a good fishing spot.

 

[Haze89]

Depending on where you live, bars/clubs near the arts districts are a good choice. My hometown has a bar that's not technically a gay bar (I guess) where all the theater/orchestra/ballet guys hang out. We all laugh that it's the bi bar. Places like that, where you can strike up conversations in person without it being awkward for being too straight or too gay, could be a good fishing spot.

Sounds perfect. I'll look into this! I'm in the north of the UK so if you're anywhere near, bar recommendations would be good

 

[MrTMT]

For me, I think the location is key, too. But bar scene isn't ideal for me, as we know, things aren't all that transpired when you met someone there. At least from the start, unless you spent more time to get to know them well to be comfortable.

I've not done this, but based on my past experience, college/university settings can be a good pool of choice as college age guys are constantly horny and there are lots of choices to pick. This site may have some potential also. I would be interested, if I'm living near you.

 

[Adventurous]

Trust me, there are shit loads of time wasters out there but don't let it put you off. You might just strike it lucky sometime. What is it they say about kissing frogs? Lol

I have never really felt comfortable going to cubs but have had some success online. My tip would be , get a discreet skype account. You can engage in some detailed chats about what you are really honestly looking for and see if you match up in expectations but also, relatively early on in the conversations, I suggest you go on cam with them. I feel they aren't willing to, delete them. Even if they want to be discrete, they should at least be willing to show you their body if not their face. That way you know if they are being honest with you and you don't find the guy claiming to be a 25 year old muscle jock is a fat 50 year old (not there is anything wrong with being large and 50 - it's just about honesty).

Best of luck with it and if you ever treat your gf to a trip down to London, let me know ;-)

 

[Pistol]

Feeld is a location-based app specifically for people looking for multiples/poly situations (mostly couples looking for a third+, and singles looking for couples or groups).

There's also FetLife.

Yes, there will be flakes and time-wasters. But that can't be avoided.

Good luck!

 

[1T1U1F1F1Y]

Swinger websites are full of bi guys looking to join couples. Often hiding in plain sight - if his profile says the words "open-minded", he's definitely open to some boy on boy action.

 

[kronos]

tinder or grindr?

 

[chadstallion]

adultfriendfinder

 

[JusSum]

I think on any hookup site, if you clearly state your intentions you'll find what your looking for

 

[Reg]

I have tried several “sites”. The time wasters take a lot of picking through. Often the more graphic they are the more likely they are goof balls getting off to someone responding. They are too afraid to follow through. A few one time, no interest in ongoing situations and that’s okay to, just don’t say your looking for a FWB situation when it is blo and go when your wife is out of town.