Hey, we've agreed to do it-- and tonight-- but all the places we're members have major pros and cons. Between LPSG video chat, cam4, and daddydater, which would experienced cammers recommend? Here are pros and cons as I see them: 1. LPSG is a generally friendly place where many members have become familiar, and in which I enjoy participating with pics and discussion. But the chat/cam setup is ego-crushing, having to ask permission to see cams and being rejected half the time by straight guys or kewl kids club members. I can't enjoy being exhibitionist while being starved and rejected as a voyeur. Plus, just don't like typing while trying to jack let alone fuck, and invites to private discussions with non-cammers happen nonstop which is annoying and distracting. 2. cam4 is hugely satisfying to me as a voyeur, nonstop variety, high quality members, hot comments. But for a debut as an online exhibitionist the audience size is daunting and the comments can be downright crazy and mean. Not that we'd have to even look at them of course until after the action. 3. daddydater is a smaller and more age-appropriate venue for older guys. But not very stimulating to me as a voyeur and also plagued by the permission denied syndrome. Maybe we should place a post in the online encounters section and just look to find one buddy or couple to connect with for our first time? Any advice welcome.