Which do you prefer? jacking off dry or wet?

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  1. hotstud4bigdick

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    I have a nice big dick that I like to play with and others like to play with (and suck). Whenever I'm playing with other guys, many want to spit on it or in their hand and then jack me off. For one thing, I find it a turn off when I see someone spit on their hand and then rub it on my dick!! I know I'll let them suck it so it's not that I don't like spit...just not to jack off.

    My problem is that I like it dry, I love it dry...I have enough foreskin that it makes it easily slide up and down no matter how hard I am (even though I'm cut). I don't use lube or spit of my own to jack it either.

    Most guys I've been with or known, like to use lotion or lube or spit. I'm wondering if that's because their foreskin doesn't move like mine or that they don't really have a foreskin at all.

    which do you do? if not dry, why not?
     
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    All of the above :cool:
     
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    I agree with Monster....however, after a few minutes (or less), since I am fortunate to be a huge and copious pre-cummer, from that point on it's wet whether I like it or not!

    As far as others spitting on my cock while jerking it, again it makes no difference since their spit and my pre-cum just make it slicker...the slicker the better!! :wank:
     
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    I also prefer it dry. I have enough precum that in not too long a time, I manufacture my own "lubricant." While I don't have any real aversion to somebody spitting on their hand or my cock, I prefer that they begin with everything dry. Remember, their saliva plus my precum is all the lube that's needed. I'm also uncut and have a free-moving foreskin!
     
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    thanks to those who shared so far. I forgot to mention another important point about me...I really don't precum so it starts dry and stays dry until the end.

    :eek:
     
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    man i love it dry

    having it lubed up like that doesnt have the same feel as lubed up. and its easyer to grab
     
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    Vaseline helps out a lot for me!

    I jerk it dry now and then, but for the most part I use Vaseline. I jack in front of the computer to a couple of free porn video websites that update every day or 2.

    Worst thing about jacking it dry for me is that when the precum starts, the friction goes sky high, and even drying off the precum doesn't totally fix it at that point.

    Here's a joke I heard a long time ago:

    What's the german word for vaseline? Veinerschlide !

    German word for virgin? Goodentite !
     
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    multiple post, don't know what happened, sorry!
     
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    Totally depends on my mood. I'm not a pre-cummer, so if I want to go wet, I need help. I'm cut but still have some movement of the skin when I'm hard. I also have a VERY large mushroom head on my thick dick (see attachment) with a VERY sensitive coronal ridge all around.

    I started out as a spit jacker, but unless I'm REALLY well hydrated, it's difficult to produce enough spit to stay lubed for a long session. I moved to KY Liquid - man was that smooth as silk! LOVED THE UPGRADE! Before too long though, even though they claim it doesn't, it gets sticky. I was then introduced to Abolene (similar to Vaseline, but better). WOW. If you're a lube jacker, give it a try. It can be tricky to find, but it's worth it when you do.

    More recently I've started some dry jacking. When I do this, I don't just like to grab on and move the skin (that hurts after about 5 minutes). I go for the dry friction of my hand sliding up and down the shaft and over the ridge on the head of my dick. If I'm not sliding over the skin smoothly (usually due to slightly sweaty palms), I use some sort of talc - the 'medicated' powders give an incredible bonus cooling sensation and don't make you smell like a baby's nursery. I suppose this could be considered a dry lubricant...

    Let me know what you guys think.
     

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    Most of the time dry. Depends on my mood and if I am solo or with my partner.
     
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    wet feels a lot better but I almost always do it dry. Much less hassle, less prep work, easier clean up.
     
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    dry here, only a rarity when i decide to use lotion or something...hard to deviate from the norm i guess.
     
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    I am cut, and definitely prefer it dry -- I partially lose my erection if directly using some kind of lube other than a little spit maybe; have always been this way; don't loose erection strength when fucking another guy with lube though (with a condom, of course)
     
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    I am circumcized so it is really hard to do it dry. But it feels hot when I am so hard that I just start thrusting in my hand through my pants and in those cases I will pull it out and start jacking off dry because it is so ready that it feels good like that. Normally it just feels pointless like that. But even when it feels amazing dry I switch to a lubricant 99% of the time by the end because it gets to be a chore. Usually I use margarine. Margarine rocks!
     
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    I masturbated dry most of my life. The few times I tried lube I didn't like the different sensation very much, found it hard to stay aroused, and ha difficulty reaching orgasm. I thought dry felt better and, as others have said, it was easier and less messy. Also, if you're reading, watching a video, or at the computer, you don't risk getting lube all over whatever you're using.

    Alas, a few years ago I had to start using lube because my penis was getting really irritated from the friction of dry masturbation. Albolene is the best stuff I have found so far. Mineral oil or massage oil will do. Vaseline is too thick for me. Water-based lubes dry up and get sticky way too fast. Pjur Eros silicone lube works well but is very expensive. I didn't like Wet Platinum or other silicone lubes nearly as much; they don't get sticky like the water-based lubes, but they do absorb into the skin.

    I still masturbate dry once in a while, but I try to have some lube handy in case the skin starts to feel chafed.
     
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    I prefer to use someones throat to masturbate. lol . Actually I am like you. I have plenty of foreskin and it slides easily back and forth over the head, so dry is fine.
     
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    i usually whack off dry, but i'm uncut and that works well. i wouldn't mind some guy spitting on my cock though and jerking it wet ...
     
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    I'm cut, but cut loosely, so I have a little bit of skin that moves. Because I generally also leak precum, I just do it dry.
     
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    Maybe you should try Boy Butter. I didn't like it myself (for one thing, it smelled like margarine), but you might like it. On the other hand, if you like using margarine, it's probably cheaper.

    Boy Butter Personal Lubricant
    The Malcontent: Malconsumer Reports: "Boy Butter"

    I haven't tried the newer, water-based version, "You'll Never Know It Isn't Boy Butter," but I think I will.
     
  20. D_Fiona_Farvel

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    As a hand job giver, dry is best.
    My most recent ex was uncut and due to the foreskin and juiciness, we never used lube. When I gave him a hand job, the feeling of the skin sliding around, being able to control and tease with the level of stimulation, feeling how silky it was in my hand - not the gross lube "squish, squish" gooeyness, was amazing.
    I think that I may be partial to uncut now, from just one relationship, due to the constantly silky, smooth factor. :)
     
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