Hmmmm? You are getting awfully close to home here. Why do you surmise the suburban doc is mundane? What if he is really fun?
Somehow I think not, but I don't know.
I hate this kind of good boy/ bad boy comparison, as if being a bad boy automatically implies a more exciting life. Bull shit. I know lots of good boys, me included who have a pretty fucking great time and so does their lady.
I wanna be your lady I love to travel. :flirt: :05:
Want my thought? Driven, career oriented
competitive men, the kind who have endured 8-10 years of punishing grad school, who have achieved some success in life want it all. Those guys are fun.
Yup, that seems to be one of my types lately. :kiss:
Fooilish stereotypes.
Aren't all stereotypes foolish? :smile:
Actually the more I think about it, the WORSE the original question becomes. As wldhoney says why would a man assume, where does the thought process originate, that would lead one to think a woman would choose a gangster over a man who dedicates his life to healing people?
I hate that whole thug love trend it is a complete turn off to me no matter what nationality the man is.
And taking it further, this is why we have women kicking the absolute shit out of men in the education realm. Women as I have said now get 57% of college degrees, soon to be 61%. Why? Because women see the value of effort toward a goal, the degree, while men don't and think they can just skate thru life. It bears repeating that women or the next generation will have to pair bond with a man well below their education rank. IN the black community that is now an absolute fact.
Sad, but true. This is a major reason why I haven't dated a Black man since the Reagan Administration. I see LOTS of very attractive Black men all the time; but thats all they are...good looking. I try talking to them and can't because I don't speak ghetto. They are what my great grandmother used to call "breath and britches". This means all they do is walk around breathing God's air and not contributing anything to society. I don't have time for that nonsense.
Has it come to this, that men think so little of themselves and of women? Actaully given the OPs name I should have guessed.