White men seeking asian women

[TheRob]

Man I don't have the anger that you guys seem to have against western/american women.

The fact is that many SE Asian women are years behind western women in equality, but the culture keeps it that way.

However, they are not docile nor doormats. They have very well defined expectations and if you meet them, they will be that willing partner.

They tend to be much simpler. Provide a roof over her head, not a castle, be faithful to her and treat her with respect. Also, which makes it even better for me, age is not always an issue, they don't see 10 or 15 years as being a problem.

it's not hatred of western women, it's really just an honest description

 

[hud01]

I got my first chance to enjoy sex with a tiny asian woman recently. She was between 45 & 50 and her face shopwed her age, but her body was the envy of any teenage gymnist. She had been a stage dancer (not exotic) for 20 to 25 years, and was in incredibly good physical condition. Nearl no boobs, but incredible nipples & I was like a kid in a candy shop. She was 4'-8" tall & weighed 85 lbs. I was able to stand up with her impaled on my cock & lift her body up & down on me, both with her facing me & facing away. It was nothing short of amazing. Both she & her boyfriend (who was watching & taking his turns were amazed (and so was I!). It had to be the bes sex I have had in as long as I can remember. She took at least 8" of my 10" cock & took it well, plus she was in such good shape that she bounced hard on my cock as it bottomed out inside her - much harder than most women & it did not seem to hurt her at all.

Topping off the great experience was the invitation to get together with them again!

I am blessed and lucky, and mostly thankful!

That's what I'm talking about and you didn't even get a small one....lol

You can find in SEA a fully developed woman who is 4'7" or 4'8" and 70 to 75 pounds.

God the possibilities

 

[hud01]

it's not hatred of western women, it's really just an honest description

I didn't say hatred, I said anger and I stand by that, based on this:

Western society and culture is the product of the poison of the media. They feed women the sense of entitlement and high expectations and even set the laws of divorce to be unfair to men. Most westernized women also have bitchy friends that ruin your relationship.

 

[LeeEJ]

I didn't say hatred, I said anger and I stand by that, based on this:

Western society and culture is the product of the poison of the media. They feed women the sense of entitlement and high expectations and even set the laws of divorce to be unfair to men. Most westernized women also have bitchy friends that ruin your relationship.

+1

Ever had a wife or girlfriend start looking at you funny after spending some time alone with her friends? Yeah, that's what we're talking about. Illustrated so well by Eddie Murphy in this classic bit:
YouTube - Eddie Murphy - Raw - umfufu

 

[ten2ride]

The face of most asian women seems to characterize the look of youthful innocence we see in much younger american females, and their petite bodies also tend to characterize a youthful appearence. Not saying us guys are petophiles, but there is a drive amongst heterosexual men to breed with females who subconscously apear to be as youthful as possible, as it instinctively represents the highest probability of the woman's capability to reproduce successfully. Consciously we do not want reproduction at all though, and that is where the confusion comes in to play. Asian women have a global reputation for not having near as many hangups about sex as western women. We hear stories of fathers selling their daughters into prostitution, and tend to believe that to an extent asian women see sex more the way us western men see it - something that feels great, is fun & should be enjoyed, as opposed to western women who tend to use it as a tool to manipulate men. In reality nearly all women use it as a barganing tool to some extent.

For me? I just like fucking a good looking women that is small enough I cna pick her up in my arms for stand-up sex, and love the way their tiny little bodies make my cock look even bigger and yes! I am shallow...lol

 

[deleted356736]

Man I don't have the anger that you guys seem to have against western/american women.

The fact is that many SE Asian women are years behind western women in equality, but the culture keeps it that way.

However, they are not docile nor doormats. They have very well defined expectations and if you meet them, they will be that willing partner.

They tend to be much simpler. Provide a roof over her head, not a castle, be faithful to her and treat her with respect. Also, which makes it even better for me, age is not always an issue, they don't see 10 or 15 years as being a problem.

I'm not angry because I haven't had a relationship with a Western woman. Men and women have different perspectives on love and sex: for men sex is a big part of love, and men generally have high sex drives that don't decline much over time. So men tend to feel loved when their partner readily shares good sex with them, and this sex also releases a lot of tension and makes men feel better. Unfortunately, Western women do seem more likely to sexually flirt with men to capture them, and then turn off the sex tap once the relationship is established and they have their children. And the usual excuse is that they're tired with young children and they're not in the mood. And most men are appreciative of these issues, and don't expect to have six-hour lovemaking sessions in the midst of all of this. But something simple, half-an-hour together, perhaps even planned in advance, will make him feel loved, cherished and will help release tension in a way that masturbation cannot.

That was my experience, and talking to men with cross-cultural relationships, that's their experiences as well. Their wives had the young children they've always wanted and they fell full and contented, but they also have a husband. And when baby is asleep, some hugging and kissing and good-old matrimonial intercourse can be had. In my case, my wife enjoyed those sexual interludes because it made her feel like a woman rather than a mother. She felt loved through my sexual attention. I felt loved, she felt loved, and the sex we shared kept us bonded. This is her culture.

Sex is but one part of a relationship, but major sexual frustration can spell doom to otherwise sound relationships. If not divorce then animosity and possibly sexual release through other partners, leading to ongoing consequences. I know men married to Western women, and they feel hatred today from the way they were sexually ignored in the past. My experience is the converse, and I ended up loving my wife with even more enthusiasm once we had children! I understood that I had someone special and precious, and she is just as precious today.

 

[LeeEJ]

An Olympus camera ad -- no nudity, but very pretty:
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[BobLeeSwagger]

Western society and culture is the product of the poison of the media. They feed women the sense of entitlement and high expectations and even set the laws of divorce to be unfair to men. Most westernized women also have bitchy friends that ruin your relationship.
Most foreign women age much less than American women anyway. The way American women eat is also the product of their sense of entitlement. Their ugly exterior then matches their interior and they even have attitudes towards the chubby chasers that love them. And some women wonder why they are never asked out....
It's not just because she's Black that she's better than Western women, it's because she's from Africa and African Blacks are WAYY more humble than American Blacks. I've dated one of each and there was a major difference in attitude. The American Black I dumped after the first date after she yelled at me for not picking her meal. Does she think I am a pyschic? Again this is a result from the feminist sense of entitlement that drives men thousands of miles away from this country to find a woman. The African girl I dated for 5 dates before she went back to Africa. She came to New York for Dance classes and my Capoeira class happens to be in the next room. She was less subtle and openly expressed her interest in me and asked if I wanted to grab a cup of coffee. I said yes as this was very flattering and I was never asked before.
Asian women are more shy on the other hand but once you ask them out, they are most accomodating. However, the ones from China are a little rough around the edges with class but they can learn. The American Asian women have a little more class but still have half the attitude as other American women.

Misogynist much? That was a mind-boggling list of stereotypes.

I personally put the issue with Western women down to Western culture being so anti-woman for so many thousands (?) of years. My experience is African, and in Africa women had a much bigger say in the running of a household, in political issues, and being pro-active about choosing a mate. This is vastly different to Western women, who were third class citizens who were literally dismissed from the workforce once they married. And this is in very recent times, my lifetime.

At the very least, your generalization about "African women" based on the ones you've met does little to describe the plight of many women in Africa today. There are many parts of Africa where women are discarded like yesterday's trash, the judicial system allows men to rape young girls, and many women are required to be available to any man who demands sex.

Of course there are many confident African women that have the means of keeping an equal footing with men. But to believe that, because you've met such women, African women as a group must be better off than those in western countries is just bizarre.

 

[B_Bonky]

Western society and culture is the product of the poison of the media. They feed women the sense of entitlement and high expectations and even set the laws of divorce to be unfair to men. Most westernized women also have bitchy friends that ruin your relationship.http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Cq8nUyO-0SY

Look up the "Ain't It Awful" Game in the book Games People Play by Eric Berne.

 

[deleted356736]

Of course there are many confident African women that have the means of keeping an equal footing with men. But to believe that, because you've met such women, African women as a group must be better off than those in western countries is just bizarre.

African culture was always based upon women running the household and men running external affairs, and heaven help the man who crossed his wife! African women were better off in the time of my mother and my grandmother (your grandmother and great-grandmother). It is not bizzare, and it's not based upon my personal knowledge but based upon research I did decades ago.

Today, a typical middle-class African woman living in a city would be as independant as a typical middle-class Western woman living in a city. But the step for the African woman took to get to that point was less than the step the Western woman took to get to that point.

 

[TheRob]

I didn't say hatred, I said anger and I stand by that, based on this:

Western society and culture is the product of the poison of the media. They feed women the sense of entitlement and high expectations and even set the laws of divorce to be unfair to men. Most westernized women also have bitchy friends that ruin your relationship.

ok the last line is debatable because no one person can know 'most' women in the Western world to have it be a 100% factual statement
but what about the other stuff is untrue?
I stand by speaking the truth is not anger or if it is, it's justified
and to not feel justified anger, is weak and cowardly

Women fed a sence of entitlement? Check
Laws of divorce favoring women? Check

 

[hud01]

ok the last line is debatable because no one person can know 'most' women in the Western world to have it be a 100% factual statement
but what about the other stuff is untrue?
I stand by speaking the truth is not anger or if it is, it's justified
and to not feel justified anger, is weak and cowardly

Women fed a sence of entitlement? Check
Laws of divorce favoring women? Check

It is not weak and cowardly, it is called getting over it and moving on.

Here is a nice fillipina girl for you

 

[LeeEJ]

Dr. No, the Bond movie, is on TV right now. I wonder if it has anything to do with my fascination.

 

[LeeEJ]

Ah, ok -- while looking for stuff about the Asian women in Dr. No, I found these:

Asian fetish - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Check the "History and Usage" section, which includes a couple quotes from Phoebe Eng:
Phoebe Eng | Speaker Profile and Speaking Topics
Eng, Phoebe

While hypersexualized, commodifying images exist for all women, and especially women of color, the image of the Asian woman combines with this the notion of ultrapassivity. Sexuality for an Asian woman is so tightly wound up in issues of power and global economic order that it is virtually impossible to address the spector of an Asian woman's sexuality without examining the subtle roles of governments and enterprise in perpetuating this situation, especially in developing countries. ”
But Eng does not agree that the attention that might be given to Asian women is bad. On the contrary, she calls it "liberating." [3]
“ Not all of us, for instance, agree that the current trend of "Asian fetish" is bad. In fact, for some of us, the new visibility of Asian women, even though stereotyped, can actually be liberating.

Also, a study done at Columbia University, also quoted in that Wiki page, says:

We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference. Men don't seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman's race had no effect on the men's choices.

Interesting, hm?

 

[hud01]

Ah, ok -- while looking for stuff about the Asian women in Dr. No, I found these:

Asian fetish - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Check the "History and Usage" section, which includes a couple quotes from Phoebe Eng:
Phoebe Eng | Speaker Profile and Speaking Topics
Eng, Phoebe


Also, a study done at Columbia University, also quoted in that Wiki page, says:
We found no evidence of the stereotype of a white male preference for East Asian women. However, we also found that East Asian women did not discriminate against white men (only against black and Hispanic men). As a result, the white man-Asian woman pairing was the most common form of interracial dating—but because of the women's neutrality, not the men's pronounced preference. Men don't seem to discriminate based on race when it comes to dating. A woman's race had no effect on the men's choices.

Interesting, hm?

As soon as I find a beautiful 24 year old from NYC to date I can test this.

:la:

 

[bravestarr]

I am surprised to see how did this thread has produced lots of opinions.

In my opinion, few of the western men who marry Asian women basically got rejected from too many white women with attitude, could never get a white woman, wanted variety during less availability of white women, divorced a white feminazi, or visited Asia and received kingly treatment from the local, third-world Asian women. However, I believe that maybe 1% of the interracial relationships between white men and asian women could be genuine like for each other and mainly if they are both raised in the United States.

Now, I am going to get grilled for this post LOL

 

[bravestarr]

Why 24? ... lol what's with the number?

As soon as I find a beautiful 24 year old from NYC to date I can test this.

:la:

 

[D_lkjhgfdsa1234]

I personally put the issue with Western women down to Western culture being so anti-woman for so many thousands (?) of years. My experience is African, and in Africa women had a much bigger say in the running of a household, in political issues, and being pro-active about choosing a mate. This is vastly different to Western women, who were third class citizens who were literally dismissed from the workforce once they married. And this is in very recent times, my lifetime.

So Western women needed to move forward from where they were, there is no question about that. African women, on the other hand, didn't have so much of a need. They were confident about their place in society, and any seventies liberation was rather superficial to them. They are better placed to handle equalilty today, because they have always been closer to equal.

I do feel sorry for Western women, because liberation is a very recent event and they are struggling to find their way. They are lost just as young men are lost.

Of course I didn't know this when I met my wife. The woman I met was confident, easy to get on with, willing to take the initiative, and still very feminine.

Asian women, I suspect, are a bit like African women. I suspect that you don't want to cross the boundaries of an Asian women, because you will get it! I also suspect they don't have difficulties dealing with equality, maybe because on the home front they were closer to being equal compared to the doormat-housewife of our society. Alternatively, there is hopeless inequality in Asian countries to this day, but these women don't care about such inequality. Either way, they are confident in themselves and where they are, and that's what we, as men, feel comfortable about.

I was not around at the time American women were oppressed but it seems American women today have lashed out at the American men today for what has happened to their mothers and don't want to go through what their mothers and grandmothers went through. Now the tables are turned and the husbands are servants to the wives and I experienced this firsthand in a live together engagement because her friends influenced her. I still don't think this is right and there should be equality between the 2 sexes. Calling me misogynist just because I disagree with American women wanting the royal treatment does not solve anything and only encourages such behavior. In Asian culture as well as African, women and men both set their places in a relationship. They both have a sense of mutual respect and that's what draws western men to Asian women. If a man cannot be the provider, he takes the role as child carer and the wife works. Things get worked out in a marriage. In most Western divorces, the wives look for a husband that can work and provide for their already made family and abandon the husband once he's disabled. If the husband were a lazy asshole, I'd understand, but American wives abandon crippled husbands a lot in the US. American men of the past would deserve this for being the oppressive scumbags to women in the past but those born now don't deserve this. What did we do to them and why should we take the blame for men of the past?
I also notice in my trips to Europe, Asia and South America that the wives let their husbands have sex with prostitutes if they no longer provide sex and they stay together. The husbands have no strings attached sex and the wives trust their husbands because they know where they are after work. The busiest times in a brothel is 6-8 at night then they go back to their wives. The US has too many bans on freedoms such as prostitution and marijuana that we have become a suppressed culture of mistrust and husbands that have girlfriends they lie to and hide from their wives.
If the wives cannot provide sex, they should allow their hubbies to get it elsewherebut hubbies should be honest about it.

 

[B_Bonky]

Now the tables are turned and the husbands are servants to the wives and I experienced this firsthand in a live together engagement because her friends influenced her.

Don't lay your trip on others. Not everyone is pussy whipped.

 

[bravestarr]

I think anyone who takes their obsession over their "type" to that degree is always going to come off as creepy. :tongue:

Ah, ok -- while looking for stuff about the Asian women in Dr. No, I found these:

Asian fetish - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

Check the "History and Usage" section, which includes a couple quotes from Phoebe Eng:
Phoebe Eng | Speaker Profile and Speaking Topics
Eng, Phoebe


Also, a study done at Columbia University, also quoted in that Wiki page, says:


Interesting, hm?