Another gym story... Here I go...again. This is based from personal obervations. I'll start by giving you my story. When at the gym, I notice how many white guys will not pay me any mind whatsoever. But if we're in the locker room/sauna/steamroom/whirlpool, etc. that is when they start trying to grab my attention.
In general, why is it that white guys act as if they don't care for black men, but when you are in a more secluded area, they suddenly have interest? I wonder if it has anything to do with their upbringing?
Also, why are so many obsessed with the old myth about black men and their dick size?
I have some theories of my own:
White males just dont see minorities as we are transparents to them..they may just pay attention to their own.
White males maybe too focus in whatever they are doing and as someone say here when they are in relaxing mode they may give their attentions.
White males deppending on their upbringings keep into their own social groups or whatever group they are in.
White males maybe insecure, shy and lack driving in relationships outside their professions and training..they have not a clue how to socialize outside work etc
White males as other males maybe same sex curious and inside closets, than only in some circunstances they may find ok to look other males etc.
White males as many other males have their own personality and unique traits than you must get to know the individual in question to really know what he is all about.
Well...to me as a Brazilian I do find black Americans for the most part having more in commom with me then whites...well generalization, ok..but is that to me as comming from very expressive out going culture I just feel more familiar with them then the commom white behaviour that to me can be very distant and lack expressions etc the truth is I more confortable with cultures and individuals that are just people persons and plain expressives and etc. They come and jump on me I do jump on them too as dancing mate situation...:bigok:
But let not forget that there are lots of black Americans who are racists too and do keep themselves in their races lines and etc. Plus I do not like the "dog style" some black males try to portrait, its a disservice to black males in general, in my oppinion.
I do prefer to talk more about the black American male than the white ones, at least for now.