Who actually has "wet dreams" or cums while sleeping?

[AT86]

I've heard about "wet dreams" or "Nocturnal emissions", I'm pushing 40 and it's only happened to me twice in my life that I am aware of. Once I dreamed that i was sitting on a chair and started cumming for no reason, and I woke up and there was a pool of cum, that was it, nothing sexually stimulating at all, the second time, i don't really remember, i think i was dreaming about watching porn and I came, and "splat" woke up to a fresh load. There may possibly have been other instances i was never aware of, there have been times where i go to use the bathroom during the day and I get a whiff like I came the night before and didn't wipe off.

A little about me, I very seldom have sexual dreams, maybe 5 or 6 my entire life, I've been jerking off almost daily since my teens, and i've been having sex regularly for the past 10+ years. Sometimes I'll hold off days or weeks just to give myself a break or a reset, and sometimes i'll give myself blueballs on purpose... (but that's another story). Lately I only master my domain once or twice a week, i don't get any alone time these days, and i'm only having sex like 1 or 2x a month. I say all of this to say it doesn't really seem to matter how often i am orgasming, I really don't have wet dreams.

I'm curious, Is this a rare thing for most men or Is it a frequent thing? Are there conditions that cause it to happen? Is it in response of a sexual dream, or is it a totally spontaneous nut bust?

 

[littleguy2]

I've heard about "wet dreams" or "Nocturnal emissions", I'm pushing 40 and it's only happened to me twice in my life that I am aware of. Once I dreamed that i was sitting on a chair and started cumming for no reason, and I woke up and there was a pool of cum, that was it, nothing sexually stimulating at all, the second time, i don't really remember, i think i was dreaming about watching porn and I came, and "splat" woke up to a fresh load. There may possibly have been other instances i was never aware of, there have been times where i go to use the bathroom during the day and I get a whiff like I came the night before and didn't wipe off.

A little about me, I very seldom have sexual dreams, maybe 5 or 6 my entire life, I've been jerking off almost daily since my teens, and i've been having sex regularly for the past 10+ years. Sometimes I'll hold off days or weeks just to give myself a break or a reset, and sometimes i'll give myself blueballs on purpose... (but that's another story). Lately I only master my domain once or twice a week, i don't get any alone time these days, and i'm only having sex like 1 or 2x a month. I say all of this to say it doesn't really seem to matter how often i am orgasming, I really don't have wet dreams.

I'm curious, Is this a rare thing for most men or Is it a frequent thing? Are there conditions that cause it to happen? Is it in response of a sexual dream, or is it a totally spontaneous nut bust?

I have many wet dreams over the years and non were sexual dreams and it didn't matter whether I had abstained or not. I have actually had a wet dream after a night of sex. Dream was always me needing to pee and standing at a urinal with a raging hardon trying to pee but nothing happening. Then all of a sudden relief but it wasn't me peeing it was me cumming

 

[ron88]

It happened to me a couple weeks ago for the first time in my life (as far as I can remember)
I am in my early 30s now and I didn’t cum for 2 weeks before the wet dream.
I remember that I dreamt something sexual while I was sleeping on my stomach - I think I subtly rubbed my hard cock between my stomach and the bed sheets. While having an orgasm i woke up. It was a huge mess but so hot. What an experience.
Can‘t believe it took me over 30 years to finally experience it.

 

[JBD_Mikk]

I used to have them when I was younger, but they stopped when I started jerking off whenever I felt overly horny. I probably would have one again if I went for many days without cumming (I've sometimes felt "halfway there" while dreaming) but I would end up feeling too horny during the day if I did that.

 

[FrankTO]

It happened to me a single time in my life, a few years ago, and I'm 60. I think it never happened before because I just masturbated very often. Usually if anything overly sexy happens in my dreams I just wake up and jerk off.

 

[Cum_is_Great]

I too am almost 40 and never had one before. Doesn't matter how long I abstain, how horny I am, even edging and watching porn before bed and not releasing. I think some men just dont have them. I assume we are subconsciously emptying into bladder and peeing it out. But maybe I'll have my first randomly one day like @ron88 . I know some say it isn't anything special and kind of annoying but I felt like it's a right of passage growing up as a man. Silly I know.

 

[AT86]

I too am almost 40 and never had one before. Doesn't matter how long I abstain, how horny I am, even edging and watching porn before bed and not releasing. I think some men just dont have them. I assume we are subconsciously emptying into bladder and peeing it out. But maybe I'll have my first randomly one day like @ron88 . I know some say it isn't anything special and kind of annoying but I felt like it's a right of passage growing up as a man. Silly I know.

You arent missing out on anything, i promise.

 

[FrankTO]

You arent missing out on anything, i promise.

Agreed, it's no big deal. Being deliberate about it is a lot better than an involuntary release.

 

[ron88]

I too am almost 40 and never had one before. Doesn't matter how long I abstain, how horny I am, even edging and watching porn before bed and not releasing. I think some men just dont have them. I assume we are subconsciously emptying into bladder and peeing it out. But maybe I'll have my first randomly one day like @ron88 . I know some say it isn't anything special and kind of annoying but I felt like it's a right of passage growing up as a man. Silly I know.

Hopefully you’ll experience it because it was so special and since then I am literally waiting for it to happen again - every night

 

[Hakan1]

I had this a lot when I was younger. Nowadays they only occur when I wasn't sexually active in a long time. Which is quite rare to be honest

 

[Hakan1]

While having an orgasm i woke up. It was a huge mess but so hot. What an experience.

Yeah it's magical

 

[londonn1]

Had them mostly when younger but have a had a couple as an adult - once a few weeks after adult circumcision- had to hold off sex for weeks - was literally too painful anyway- and after several weeks of that was getting very horny indeed. It wasn't a particularly hot dream, but that feeling of reaching point of no return, I remember being incredible in that dream state - perhaps just because it was the first cum in weeks though, lol.

More recently, also had one during a hotel stay for a conference- again not particularly hot or horny set up, but it was a good feeling, I thought

 

[coolestguy]

I had them when I was young pretty often. My parents noticed the stain and my dad told me it's normal and no need to be embarrassed about it.

 

[B4andAfter]

Just from a biological standpoint - what I remember being told is that it's your body trying to keep you in shape. Like all other living things on earth, we are built to reproduce and your body does it's best to stay ready to do that until it feels like you've past your prime. Basically you get hard ons at night and that's your dick working out to stay ready for action. As part of that, fresh semen is best for reproduction, you don't want it sitting in your body and losing its vitality. So basically a wet dream is your body trying to clear out older semen so new semen can be produced. (Of course, this isn't the only thing that's happening or can trigger it but it's one of them.) Anyway, your body dreams up some scenario to get you hard and then to get you to come. (For people mentioned not having a lot sex dreams, just because you don't remember them, doesn't mean youre not having them, the mind processes a lot of stuff when you sleep through your dreams.)
Like other people mentioned the very few times it's happened to me I think have been times when I haven't ejaculated in a while. Not a guarantee but if you wanted it to happen, you would probably be best avoiding ejaculating and just edging as much as possible to get a good amount stored up until your body decides it can't hold it any longer and tries to get it out of you.
Side note: need to hear your blueballs story.

 

[krispypanda]

I used to do them frequently a few years back, but hasn't happen in a while.

 

[sprinter78]

I didn't have my first one until I was 32. Then not again until 43. 46 now and have had two in te past 6 months. Both times it involved dreaming about blowing a guy with my wife, something that has never happened.