Who am I? Please help

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  1. dubai_dude2

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    I hate anal fuck so I am neither top nor bottom but I like to suck or get sucked by men. I also like watching dicks. Am I gay? If yes what kind and what I am called.
     
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    Why do you want a label? You are a guy who likes to suck, get sucked and watch dicks...there you go! :biggrin1:
     
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    no replies yet!
     
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    not all guys are into the same thing...you enjoy dick...just keep it at that for now...no worries
     
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    So your straight, but you think you got some bisexual signs, right?

    Look, it does not matter if you like dicks, if you do, guess your not so extremely straight.
    It means your a little bit gay, but not enough to be considered Bi. I got the same thing.

    For me , a real proof for being bi or gay is love.... ever fall in love with a guy? That it was more than just sex? My case? NEVER. Girls? Many times!

    So, don't get all worried that your gay, even if you are, it's nothing.
    So chill out and be yourself, a straight guy that likes oral sex with a guy, no big deal!
     
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    do you like body contact with other guys?
     
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    In the West, whether you are gay, bi or straight is judged by most people on the gender of the people you are attracted to, regardless of what you do with them.

    Is it the same in the Islamic world? Or is it only guys that receive anal are regarded as "homosexual"? I ask because I remember reports of a police raid on a gay party in Egypt some years ago, where all the guests were subjected to an anal examination by the police, and only those who were found to have semen there were actually arrested.
     
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    I'm similar to the OP, I'm not into anal but enjoy the other things. Though I find myself more interested in guys than girls, I call myself bi. Straight people to me are people who wouldn't fool around with another guy. Bisexuals are people who enjoy sexual encounters with both genders, which you do, so technically you're bisexual. Gays or homosexuals enjoy sex with their own gender only, that's not you so you're not gay.

    You're bi, I know people don't like labels but they're the ones who make things more complicated by creating all these shades of gray. Not every gay person has to like anal, not every bi person has to like it either. There are straight guys who like to fuck girls in the ass. Your sexual preferences have nothing to do with your label.

    Its very simple, if you enjoy being with both you're bi.
     
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    I get attracted only to good looking guys
     
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    All bi or gay guys are only attracted to good looking men. Problem is, we don't all agree about who is good looking and who is not.
     
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    Dont worry. Life is a wonderful journey. Enjoy it.:cool:
     
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    You may call yourself gay, not label yourself a top or bottom and decline anal sex dude. Find someone who also prefers oral sex and you'll be fine.
     
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