to a jackoff party? i was once invited to one hosted by a rich houston business man...they asked could i donate $175 to help with the costs...ok, didn't make that one. now another party is trying to form that'll be about 5 or 6, small group. it should start slow i'm told with solo jo and jo each other. as folks leave it possibly open to more, oral and fucking, just all out sex. i know none of those there and wonder if it's ok to suggest or volunteer something in order to make it better? say for one to offer himself to the group in ways? just curious and don't want to be out of line.