I came of age during the AIDS crisis so using condoms has been my reality for all of my adult sex life. I've been in committed relationships before where we didn't use condoms but if I'm being honest, I had sex outside those relationships...and always made sure the sex was safe.
In the past 5 years or so, I have modified my behavior slightly. I don't engage in unsafe sex as a rule, but have barebacked on occasion. After 20+ years of safe sex (and remaining HIV-), I have a pretty good handle on what to do to maintain my health. I'm a top so I have less risk of exposure. Sometimes, I'll play "just the tip", sometimes I'll pump raw for a few strokes and occasionally, I'll just brazenly fuck raw and enjoy it. Nothing is more satisfying than breeding the hole of a hot, willing bottom.
Is raw sex better? Yeah, although I've had tons of hot safe sex. But fucking without condoms also has an "dirty, wrong, against the rules" appeal that safe sex can't match. It's also part of the reason I never watch porn with condoms anymore.
In the past 5 years or so, I have modified my behavior slightly. I don't engage in unsafe sex as a rule, but have barebacked on occasion. After 20+ years of safe sex (and remaining HIV-), I have a pretty good handle on what to do to maintain my health. I'm a top so I have less risk of exposure. Sometimes, I'll play "just the tip", sometimes I'll pump raw for a few strokes and occasionally, I'll just brazenly fuck raw and enjoy it. Nothing is more satisfying than breeding the hole of a hot, willing bottom.
Is raw sex better? Yeah, although I've had tons of hot safe sex. But fucking without condoms also has an "dirty, wrong, against the rules" appeal that safe sex can't match. It's also part of the reason I never watch porn with condoms anymore.