When two men care for each other, when the ties of friendship have been set, sexual contact does happen as the most natural and most satisfying way of expressing the regard which each has for the other. Partners who know and love each other desire to please each other and will explore many ways of fulfilling that desire. What seemed repulsive to the unatttached male can in these most intimate moments become part of the grandest of experiences. Notions of dominance and/or submission play no part in such relationships.
Well expressed, Corius. And now I'm fantasizing doing exactly what you're
talking about....with my best friend, who's 78 and str8. Oh, to have the
sensuous pleasure of exploring him and having him do the same to me. And nothing would be repulsive to me in making love to him. I'd do anything he wanted me to, with an enormous amount of pleasure and total satisfaction, I'm sure. If only he felt the same(!). :smile: If I could read minds, I'd give anything to know if/what he feels towards me physically....
even if it was zero, zip, notta. Then I'd know. But for now, the friendship is terrific and I am blessed
to have him in my life....that's hard to beat.