New friends come all the times. And the process of knowing them -both good and bad sides- can be very exhausting, especially when it's a friend you can instantly feel the connection with.
I had this one friend from Turkey and we instantly mutually liked each other (not relationship 'like' - but friendship 'like') and after meeting at Istanbul and going to Malaysia together, we always contacted each other afterwards. Then, he always asked me to hang out together and he's been fun to be with. But day after day, he's starting to reveal his true colors (and I guess I am too) and there are some sides of him I do not really like. Lately, my motto in friendship is, if we're to accept one friend, we accept the whole package, good and bad. And that's what I'm trying now, but still, it's been quite a long time I made new good friends, and the process is upsetting, requiring a lot of tolerance, and exhausting.
You guys must have had similar experience. What do you do?
I had this one friend from Turkey and we instantly mutually liked each other (not relationship 'like' - but friendship 'like') and after meeting at Istanbul and going to Malaysia together, we always contacted each other afterwards. Then, he always asked me to hang out together and he's been fun to be with. But day after day, he's starting to reveal his true colors (and I guess I am too) and there are some sides of him I do not really like. Lately, my motto in friendship is, if we're to accept one friend, we accept the whole package, good and bad. And that's what I'm trying now, but still, it's been quite a long time I made new good friends, and the process is upsetting, requiring a lot of tolerance, and exhausting.
You guys must have had similar experience. What do you do?