Who else has a hard time setting up a MFM threesome?

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  1. Croix68

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    Hey guys, I'm in Richmond, Virginia and have been trying to find a guy and girl to have a regular thing with. Seems like no one's interested. For those of you that have had MFM threesomes, how'd they happen? All spontaneous? I'm sure some had to have been planned, right?
     
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    My MFM was spontaneous, but I was 21. I think that sort of thing is a lot easier if you're 21.

    We've discussed MMF/MFM threesomes and haven't done it even though we've had several offers. There are concerns and complications. I imagine that if you want to be very smart about it, it's not an easy thing.
     
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    I'm in the great RVA, but I have no female. My ex and I considered it a while back however.
     
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    If a MMF/MFM is difficult, an MFF must be down right out of this world!
     
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    I think it's easier if you're an MF couple and look for another M, than to be an M and look for an MF couple.

    What about swingers clubs? Adult Friend Finder?
     
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    It has to be planned in every detail, it's no use hoping it will happen, as one guy might have a bit too much to drink, and then he's left out, remember it is stressful, the girl should tell the guys what she wants, how she wants it and if they are ok with it.
     
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    your best bet is to look for a couple who is looking for third. it's still a long shot but it's your best shot.

    if you're looking for a regular thing, that will even make it harder. keep looking, you'll find it. there are plenty of couples out there who want to bring in a third on a regular basis. it's all in how well you fit their needs and how well you mesh with them.
     
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    the one i had was easy, my friends gf loves big dicks so they asked if id join in
     
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    Go to Craigslist for your area, click on "casual encounters", got to MF4M and read the advertisements.
     
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    Ive had several where they were long time things. Most through AFF but one was "spontaneous" The first was mfm but the couple knew I was bi and it was actually a MMF but just oral between the guys. This was my longest "relationship" which lasted almost two years from the time i was 21-23 and only ended to do moving to a different country. The couple was much older than me, 36, and it wasn't weird accept for the first time but after that it was a lot of fun and we met almost 1-2 times a month.

    The second was spontaneous where it was again a married couple who were 33-34 years old. This lasted only six months and actually it was MFM and not to often but the husband was OK with me sleeping with his wife.

    And the most recent ended 8 months ago. My last GF (or friend with benefits) knew I was bi and it was again a MMF threesome with the male spending most time with me. My GF wasn't really into the other guy but enjoyed watching me with him. Again that was through AFF and only two months while I was back in the US.

    The only advice if your looking for this type of thing is to US aff but there is a lot of bullshit. I think for every person i actually meet on there I talk to about 100 that back out or disappear.
    as for MFF threesomes had a few of those but those were back in my college years:)
     
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    One was with 2 guys who are best friends,they both know i am never shocked and both fancy me so asked if i would indulge.Planned by them both t spring it on me.

    Another was with my now ex husband and his best pal who never seemed to get any hanky panky.........planned by my ex but didnt ask me first.

    Another was with my best pal and another pal of mine......we all went to a comedy club and we all went back to my best pals house afterwards.10 of us were there and 4 left at about 2a.m ish and the others crashed out.I got undressed and then went and got into my best pals bed,so cheeky sod other pal jumped in next to me and the quilt came off of me and my boobs and everything was showing.Pal made some comment so i said " Bring it on!!".................So he did,i thought "in for a penny in for a pound" and beckoned best pal over (not thinking he would as i was actually just joking) so he came over to the bed,took off his clothes and .......well,it was all bl00dy brilliant!:biggrin1:


    Fabulous but not that difficult to find or set up.

    I was about to say the same..........or book an escort!
     
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    I am not far from Richmond and if you know a willing female I am up for it. LOL
     
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    Im from toronto - canada and am in the same situation...put word on here twice with no luck lol
     
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    we do me and my wife are looking for a third male so she can have a dp just havent found the right guy. must be attractive ,in shape and hung. we are in columbia s.c if anyone is close leave a msg.
     
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    So anyone had better luck than me?
     
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    The only advice if your looking for this type of thing is to US aff but there is a lot of bullshit. I think for every person i actually meet on there I talk to about 100 that back out or disappear.

    Thanks for posting that, because it describes our track record with mmm threesomes. Inundated with offers, 99% of which are bullshit.
     
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    Yea, I'd use AFF but not interested in paying to use their site. And CL seems to be nothing but spam.
     
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    My MFM was spontaneous and absolutely out of this world! 10 years later I still have it as my number one sexual experience.

    A FB of mine invited me to see a strip show with himself, his (male) friend and his gf (they had an open relationship). Not long after we got to the club the gf said she had a headache and went home.

    As the night went on and I got more and more drunk, and more and more horny I realised that I didn't just have my FB's hand on my leg under the table - I had the friend's hand on my leg as well! I was a bit worried about what the FB might think about this (thought he might not want to share, even if we were just FBs). But when the friend got up to get more drinks the FB said 'I see you've got him interested too'. He knew from my grin that I was happy about it. And he answered with a grin of his own.

    I don't know if the boys had a chat when I was away from the table, but as soon as we got into the taxi outside (utterly wasted by then) they were both all over me. I couldn't believe it - a MFM was one of my longtime fantasies. We went back to the FBs house and had the best sex of my life.

    The next morning I dropped the friend off in the city and tried to drive home. I managed to get lost on the way because my head was still floaty from all that sex. I've never seen the friend since that morning, but the FB and I are still FBs. I haven't seen the gf since that day either. She decided that she didn't like me and she didn't want an open relationship anymore. She lifted that after a while but the FB doesn't let her know that he's still in touch with me.

    Both the FB and I would love to do it again someday so maybe one day we'll get lucky. And I've never forgotten a single detail :biggrin1:.
     
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    I would have been pissed... cause I was wasted:tongue: I would have to ask to do it again!:biggrin1:
     
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    I have posted ads on Craigslist, but people have a flagging fetish and at always gets removed. I posted on here and got a couple replies.

    The worst part of my past experiences in trying to set things up is trying to get it to fit into everyone's schedule. That's always the dealbreaker it seems. Plus I've been looking for a bi MMF, so that seems difficult as well. There is a site called BiCupid where we found someone, but again, my friend's schedule f-ed it up. He has to be discreet so his time is hard to get. However, I'm at the point where I'm willing to just find two guys on my own. We've been looking for about a year now, and I am getting too fed up lol. Hopefully the people on this site may work out.
     
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