- lgej,
I say you're absolutely correct, Richard. Let's debunk the myth that somehow men have a magical ability to give better bj's than women and that women, likewise, have a magical ability at cunnilingus. What makes for the magical moment is having a partner who really, truly, absolutely enjoys doing it. It's just that simple. My wife is incredible at giving head and she always has been...never had better (of course, I will admit that I haven't had it from a man). Why? She's INTO IT! She does it as much for her enjoyment as for mine and that really shows. The same is true about my oral technique. Why am I so good at it? Because I enjoy as much as she does. So, can't we all agree that the magic is a combination of enthusiasm, enjoyment and (in the case of my wife and me) love. Not gender-related at all.Being a gay man, I have never experienced a blow-job from a women. I do believe however that either sex can give good head. I think all that matters is that the person giving likes to do it and is not doing it out of a feeling of obligation. I also think that some straight men think they like getting head from an other man more than a woman because of the excitement of trying something new and different.