I underwent an Orchidectomy in August of 2012; after suffering with severe, debilitating pain, in my left testicle, following a work-related assault. I was due to have a prosthesis inserted, in a separate procedure, but due to my experiencing prolonged post-operative pain, in the Orchidectomy wound (in the inguinal region), this surgery has been delayed indefinitely.
To be honest, I am starting to feel very down about this, as I had been assaulted in 2010 and had been unable to engage in any sexual activity (because of the severe pain) for the two years prior to my surgery. Agreeing to undergo an Orchidectomy was a drastic and difficult decision to make, but I so desperately wanted to have my life back.
Unfortunately, I am now experiencing severe, constant, pain in the scar and this is exacerbated whenever I engage in any intercourse. I have recently had a steroid injection, into the wound, but this has only served to make the pain more pronounced. I would be happier if the whole area, around the wound, could be "numbed".
I was circumcised as a young child, due to phimosis; and although I grew up in a predominantly uncut culture (the South Wales valleys), I had never viewed my being circumcised as a negative. Instead, I always became the source of some fascination by various female partners. However, being circumcised is not helping the pain which I currently experience in my Orchidectomy scar, as the scar ends at the base of my penis and with my being tightly circumcised, even an erection serves to exacerbate the pain in my scar.
I feel so upset, frustrated and miserable about this. I hate to lay all of my troubles on anyone, but any advice you guys could give wold be most appreciated. Thank you.