Deb: A friend of mine actually asked this question of me, so she inspired to me to ask it here. Guys, when you're receiving a blowjob from your partner, do you feel like the one "in power"? Do you have the sense that you're in control of the other person? My friend says that when she's going down on her guy she has all the power and control over him in terms of when and how she gives him pleasure, but I feel the exact opposite...I feel like the submissive one in "servicing" my b/f ( this a wanted feeling for me, btw). I guess it would depend alot on whether the guy returns the favor, but even when my b/f is eating me I still feel like he's holding the sexual control over me, or rather I choose to see it that way. What do all of you think?....who mostly holds the power and control during oral sex?