Eddie, and CJ, bost are missed
My cousin, we are on the West coast and we had no idea he was gay until we received a copy of the obituary
I lost two Uncles and a Preacher to AIDS
You all have my sympathies.
Do you have any good stories about these people? Particular ways you remember them? Did the fact that they died of AIDS change your opinion of the disease or what was/is being done to combat it? Does AIDS color your memory of them in any way you can detect?
I don't personally know anyone, or of anyone
I can only imagine what it must be like to lose someone to something as meaningless as that disease
When I first read this comment, I was almost offended by reading the word, "meaningless." It then occurred to me that indeed, the virus is simply an error in a genetic code, possibly not even a living thing as some scientists claim. People die of dread diseases all the time: cancer, heart disease, liver failure, strokes, typhus... what was it like in the early 20th century when the Spanish flu took 20,000,000 lives?
Oh wait. We're there. If WHO's figures are accurate, then there are about 35 million people in the world living with HIV. 70% of those people live in Africa, another 15% live in Asia. Only 7% of HIV infected people live in an industrialized country where people have the best hope to get palliative care.
HIV has killed more people than the Black Death. It is the deadliest plague in human history. That's as if the population of Iraq or Tokyo has been killed by it, and the population of Kenya is infected with it. Taken together, the population of the United Kingdom either has HIV or has died from it.
I wondered if there was any meaning to the deaths. If, "meaningless," caused me trepidation, perhaps there was an unexamined reason for it. Perhaps I thought that their deaths had meaning without consciously realizing it. Taken as a whole, the number is staggering, surely it must mean
something.
Are they martyrs to bigotry, racism, homophobia, and greed? Will they be cited as examples of a dark age when neither capitalism nor socialism provided ways to devote resources to saving these lives? What does it say about us when a virus that has killed more people than any other doesn't make the newspaper every day?
I can't simply categorize 60,000,000 people as existential angst. It seems immoral to do so.