Who here has been refused sex for being too big?

[AH88]

Never been refused, but my current gf says I'm too big to enjoy it reguarly. I'm not even that girthy really, she's just tight and I probably get carried away too often and try shoving the whole thing in.

 

[B_big_dick18]

i got denied sex wen i was 17 because i was going to fuck a 16 year old birthday girl and when i whipped my dick out she said that looks like a fuckin city bus and she said you can try but dont hurt me so i tried to get in and i couldnt get passed about 4 inches left on my cock and she was cryin i felt so bad lol the birthday girl didnt like my present

 

[B_big_dick18]

this was at a party where i was trashed and sauced out of my mind

 

[D_Maurice Mountlilly]

As you might know I was once refused sex because my dick was too small. Which sucked because I had spent four months courting the woman in question. But that's all in the past now.

So now I wonder about what it might be like on the flip side. Who here has been refused sex because you were too big? Or has anyone had a relationship end because the woman (or man) thought you were uncomfortably large and it made sex too much of a chore?

i've been avoided by a few women who've heard about my reputation for being big(from other women i've been with)
but in person i've been turned down by only one when sex was seeming like it was going to happen,but they crazy part about her was all she talked about was how she liked big dicks,and could never find a dick as big as the ones she's seen in porno.
go figure...

 

[TOP9X7]

It's happened, but by my taking it VERY slow at entry most guys surprise themselves, it's more an issue of how much they can handle, how long of time they can handle it, what speed and how hard of a pounding.

 

[HorsemanUK]

Had it happen a few times where ive been told it looked too big and they wern't prepared to allow it near them for fear of been split in two. When it happens I mostly just laugh it off and move on to another women who is desperate to try it.

 

[maxcok]

But that's all in the past now.

..:rolleyes2:

I'll admit I don't quite get Quantum Mechanics so I guess it could also be in the future at the same time.

Otherwise it was in the past and is something I'm trying to get over.

Clever dodge, but yeah, I don't think so. I challenge you to abstain for the next six months from posting anything remotely referencing your virginal status, or the size of your wang, or the size of anyone else's wang, however obliquely or surreptitiously. Then we'll reevaluate. If that sounds too difficult, maybe you need to take a break from the big penis site and just concentrate on getting laid.

 

[B_625girth]

I only had one "panic" and it took a few times fucking before she was comfortable with my fat cock. some gals on discovery are almost elated, and I had a few who broke their own rule about no fucking on the first date once they found out.

 

[cuautli]

Where the fuck do you guys find these people who love getting fucked with huge dicks? Send some my way holy shiiiii

 

[D_Phil_R_Upp]

I know I wasn't asked but had to add my .02......

I've never sent someone away for being too big. I've been honest and said no to getting fucked, because I liked having an intact sphincter muscle. But there's always something to do with a big, beautiful dick.

Basincreek: If that woman had cared about you, you would have made love together. If she said no, then she was not the right one, anyway.

I'd be wondering about some other things besides cock size (yours is just fine): From the woman's perspective, did your sexual advances come across as caring/loving or passion? Or was it a need you wanted to fill? We may all be misreading this but your original message did sound a little transactional (four months should = sex) so I wonder what message the woman that turned you down was getting from you?

Confidence is the sexiest thing for most of us.....a calm, confident (not cocky) guy will get laid if he wants to.

 

[EmJay]

OP: So for 4 months you have dated a woman who wasnt as sexually into you as you would have expected. A woman that cares for you will give you a chance..even when you are not that big..and afterwards she will make up her mind if its worth dating further..If it is, that's great and if it isnt you move on..

You cant be sexually compatible with anyone..and there are many women out there that will want what you have got..this is more fact, than sizelovers running the place.

So the odds are more in your favour than for most of the guys on here.

You need to learn how to exude some confidence or actually feel it and then show it..because..otherwise when one day you will make love to a woman all of the previous experiences or thoughts will fuck with your mind and you'll go weak during sex or some other nervousness will rule your body. And it will be THAT that will create a bad experience..not the size of your penis.

You do seem like a real nice guy..but sometimes you can also come across a bit whiney..
And even that I can understand, because you feel lonely..

So..date more than one woman at a time (if possible) to create options and find out who you're more compatible with, believe in yourself and be patient.

Get laid!!

 

[D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead]

Yeah, there was one woman who just didn't want to deal with wondering if she was going to be able to take my thickness.

Guess I wasn't that important to her!

 

[TheRob]

yes I have had women opt out of sex due to my being too large

 

[Neveragain4]

Its kind of humorous, im thinking most the time it depends on the womans cycle. My woman said it was great, the biggiest and best she ever had. plus according to her she has played in the minors(bisexual). The oral sex was great also................but! I am 46 she is 34 with 2 kids, after 3 months, I was told it was to much and she couldn't keep having sex with me everyday because she felt that I was trying to "knock the bottom out of her" everytime we we made love. Now we are on a time out/I need space thing. She told me that she can go 3 months without having sex..?? On her point she did have a complete hisdirectomy at 33 because of cervical cancer. Now im not mister ED but I measure out to 8x6 and she is 110 lbs.

 

[Drifterwood]

From my perspective I was "refused" sex. Maybe you can think of a different word that would fit better.

Yes. She changed her mind. Men can do it too.

 

[builder10]

Had a few say NO WAY in their pussy, but theymade up for it with a decent hand/blowjob

Only one who flat out refused, freaked and said it wasnt going anywhere near her when I first pulled it out... After she'd choked on half of it for 5 min or so, and days of horny messages leading up to the night, she then told me she couldn't take it and to take her home.

We were in the middle of nowhere in my car. I wasn't fkn impressed. And neither was my cock. I, Booted her out of the car and told her to walk home.

Always get girls saying no way when I first pull it out, but they are usually persuaded otherwise.

 

[LilCuckHubby]

There was a girl I dated back in the spring who had a lot of issues. When we started fucking, she told me it was like losing her virginity all over again. After we screwed a few times, she told me she wanted to be my girlfriend and all that, but that she and I should have sex with other people instead of each other. She said she didn't want me to stretch her out to the point where she wouldn't be able to enjoy average guys after me. I told her to take a hike.

I have a younger brother who is very large and was refused sex by his girlfriends because of it. He visited my wife and me very often and would tell us about how they would finally get to the point of penetration and the girl would back out. He said one of them actually tried but it just didn't fit. I have a very small cock and I mentioned in a couple of other responses that my wife was a virgin when we married so she had no idea about the difference that cock size can make during sex. As time went on and he talked about his size and being a virgin at 19 she got more and more curious about large cocks. She talked about it often and would get incredibly horny so I suggested she try it. One evening after a bit of alcohol she offered to help him lose his virginity and he thought she was joking but I told him she was serious. I got called out for work but before I left I saw his cock and it was absolutely huge. I knew it was big but had no idea just how big. It was about 9 inches long but thicker than any cock I had ever seen or heard of. When I returned home it was evident they had sex while I was gone because she was still laying on the bed naked, dripping, and gaping open. She said it took quite a while for him to work his cock into her but she managed to take it. My wife said that while we had been having sex for almost 2 years that it wasn't until he fucked her that she really felt she had lost her virginity.

 

[pcghabsy]

Thankfully, hasn't happened to me so far. Don't think it will ever happen either. If it does, it will totally suck.

 

[bigsby112]

Dude, does it weird you out that your baby bro was able to satisfy your wife and she felt he took her virginity? Has it changed your relationship with either of them?

 

[cutedorkwho]

I don't consider myself much more than average size wise, but I do enjoy sex quite a bit and can go on for longer than most guys I've learned. And while I haven't been turned down because of the size of my dick, I have been turned down because of my somewhat rough enthusiastic lovemaking style, which I guess to a girl can make an average penis feel painfully large after going at it a while.

My last ex was particularly susceptible to this, and she'd often complain it hurt because of my size when this wasn't completely true I think..