who is gay, who is bi?

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  1. donnydon

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    hey people, im somehow attracted to cute straight guys, inwhich i had sex with most of all my star8 friends through watching of porn films together whereby i can only happened once, they swear never to do it again. For doing "it" once, how are they called:- gay, bi, insecure or what???
     
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    Homosexual !!!
     
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    Human :rolleyes:
     
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    They only had "it" once cos we're engrossed in the porn film we're watching together,. does it means they r now homosexuals?.....porn films are good to catch str8 guys
     
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    One incident doesn't define someone's sexual orientation, so you can't really give them a label.
     
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    Do they have to be called anything?:rolleyes: Labels, labels, labels:mad:
     
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    I guess he posted twice to get more attention.
     
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    I prefer defiling srt8 guy than having sex with already-gay guys...i dont know y
     
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    defiling? :rolleyes:
     
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    I don't care about bi, gay, or straight. I don't judge people based on their sexual orientation.
     
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    Then the only appropriate label is "victim".
     
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    I have to agree with DaveR in the matter. Being a “MO” myself I have had the fun in my life to have sex with many “straight” men as they claim to be. But, I think “human” has a better understanding for me in definition to labels that are place on us. “Human” makes a better statement. All sex really is, is getting off based on attraction.
     
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    The first time somebody sings a note, you don't call them musicians, do you?

    Sexual identity is an identity. People have to choose it, but it's a little risky to base an identity or a career on a hiccup or some accidental happenstance.

    Sex involves innate talents, not just reactions. Sex involves the body's ability not just to communicate very personal responses to beauty & life, but to be awakened and changed by them. Anybody can flinch or cum, but nobody would base an identity on that.

    But let's talk about your own communication skills and depth. When you talk to these people, what kind of depth is involved? Do you want to get to know them more deeply, more broadly, more completely? Is that what your question is about?
     
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    I guess this is one of his ways of catching more "star8's" .:tongue:

    Well spotted I.:wink:
     
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    That's easy, it's one of 2 things. Either you just enjoy the thrill of the hunt and getting them to submit to you sexually. OR you are under the mistaken opinion that a man who has never been with another man is devoid of sexually transmitted diseases. Although you don't mention force which would mean rape; it seems that at a minimum you are guilty of coercion. :mad:

    You know exactly what he means just as well as I do. :tongue: Please try and keep a civil tongue. :cool:
     
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    njqt I'm sorry you feel that everyone needs a label. I am pleased to learn that the younger generation are less inclined to pigeon-hole their peers. I feel that if you do give someone a label it may fall off or the writing may become blurred over time. (to be metaphoric:wink:). Maybe I will just have a "temporary label" for myself, thanks.:biggrin1:
     
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    I don't really think people can be accurately compared to canned goods. :tongue:

    That said, I'm a super star8!
     
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    Im Tri-sexual, Ill try anything once :biggrin1:
     
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    I know! Otherwise I would be a cross between baked beans and corned beef! And maybe a tin of pilchards too. :eek:
     
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