who likes bi guys?

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I like people based on their individual characteristics - so some bi-guys I like, some I am indifferent to and some I dislike - same as straight guys and gay guys (and women).

If, however, you mean specifically as sexual partners then that's a bit different. I've had a few FWBs who were bi and I can't say that the sexual experience with them was significantly different from the experience with straight guys. I've never had a threesome with a guy involved so I never gained from any potential benefits in that direction that fucking a bi-guy might offer.

I will say I never developed a strong emotional attachment to a bi-guy. Extremely good friends - yes, extremely turned on by - yes, but never 'in love'. The men I have fallen for have all been very hetero. (And I don't mean they were/are outspoken about their heterosexuality - quite the opposite, they were/are the kind that don't feel the need to tell people 'I'm not gay' and don't especially care if people think they are gay.) Now I can't say there were that many bi-guys in my past that I can find that relevant - maybe I just didn't meet a bi-guy who ticked all the boxes.
 

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I love bi guys. My ideal relationship would be a loving MMF triad w/2 guys who were completely intimate with both each other and me. I'll admit, however, that the one downside to having casual sex w/bi guys is that the HIV risk is a lot higher. I know it doesn't have to be this way, but statistically it's a reality. It gives me pause sometimes.
 

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People are people, right?

On the other hand, I have met some bisexuals (men and women) who felt in order to be completely sexually fulfilled they must have a regular partner of each gender. This would be a major incompatibility for me. I expect monogamy.
 

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People are people, right?

On the other hand, I have met some bisexuals (men and women) who felt in order to be completely sexually fulfilled they must have a regular partner of each gender. This would be a major incompatibility for me. I expect monogamy.

Monogamy is certainly a factor, I understand that. But lets pretend it is'nt for this situation. I mean this is the type of forum where I would expect that to be a little lower on the list of attributes wanted. Maybe I'm wrong. Don't missunderstand me I totally agree with your oppinion just trying to ignore the obvious.
 

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I love them.. my current bf is tottaly bi, and we have lots of fun together... the threesome thing didn't work out, cause he actually has a gf too, and she wasn't all that into the lets share thing, but just as long as she isn't informed about what the two of us [guys] do in bed, she's happy having her bf have his own bf! :D
 
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i admit to a full blown crush/love of bi-sexual men. for the most part they come off as more open minded, less critical and fairly on the easy going side. and cute. just powerfully attractive menfolk.

i've either been very fortunate to meet the top of the crop or my own kink has hazed over obvious flaws.

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That's my experience too, they usually make better lovers.

i admit to a full blown crush/love of bi-sexual men. for the most part they come off as more open minded, less critical and fairly on the easy going side. and cute. just powerfully attractive menfolk.

i've either been very fortunate to meet the top of the crop or my own kink has hazed over obvious flaws.

ML
 

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personally i do as well, esp if they haven't done nething with a guy before, something about giving them a new learning curve i suppose, but haven't been there yet.
 

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altho i did have a chance with one bi guy, who although he was cute was really lacking in self confidence (something i find pretty unattractive) and had spent time before consoling him, so it seemed a bit wrong to go there...