Most people in longterm relationships have very rauncy/hot dirty fantasies when they have sex. What is yours? Do you re-enact the same fantasy? Do the same people show up in the plot? Do you have the same fantasy several times in a week or month?
Sorcerer said:Anything involving Dean Cain. Lately Jesse Metcalfe too.
Bette said:It's a definite fear of intimacy sign that men think of something else while they're having sex with the woman they "love."
Bette said:It's a definite fear of intimacy sign that men think of something else while they're having sex with the woman they "love."
Bette said:It's a definite fear of intimacy sign that men think of something else while they're having sex with the woman they "love."
Hefty said:Totally wrong. It is perfectly normal, and perfectly common. Thought is one thing, action is another. Men do it, and women do it. Fantasies are fantasies, and not everybody would want to act them out.
To state that your thoughts "should" only revolve around your partner at all times is, let's face it, moralist. (You are also being hetero-normative, but that's another matter.)
"Fear of intimacy" is a trite and very blunt weapon which is all too often directed towards men in particular, often in a quite cavalier fashion. This is the 21st century: we should be better informed and more considerate than this.
yorksguyuk said:Most people in longterm relationships have very rauncy/hot dirty fantasies when they have sex. What is yours? Do you re-enact the same fantasy? Do the same people show up in the plot? Do you have the same fantasy several times in a week or month?
Ed69 said:Thats news to me!!My wife and I have been together 15 years.With her 40F tits swinging in my face while she rides me I don't have time to think of anythingelse!:smile: