Most of the men I was with sucked at sucking, but the single best BJ ever was from a guy, older, very thick well hung big dick that he let me suck while he was going down on me but said he did not want to lose his wad that day because he had to go home to his boyfriend and perform later. My wife was the best female, the first and only to make me cum from fellatio. I marked it on my calendar with a big WOW and she thought that was hilarious. I had to keep telling her, "DON'T STOP, DON'T STOP...DON'T STOP..." about a thousand times because I take so long to cum and the other past GF's never even got close to getting me off, including the one who could deepthroat easily. Other than those two women, all the rest were pathetic at sucking cock. But really, like I said, so were almost all of the men! Most people don't seem to be very good at sex, period. I was just thinking earlier, the best male partner I had was probably a guy who picked me up at a gay bar (I almost never went to any bars but that night happened to go in to play a video game), who was really beautifully built, well hung and amazingly sympatico with me... but when I went to see him at his place again later that week, I realized he was a prostitute! We were watching TV and the news did a live shot of the Gay Pride festival and he started saying, "Oh, shit! I was gonna work that! I was gonna work that!" over and over. It's funny, I think he assumed I was a hustler, too. A number of friends and acquaintances had told me I should become a gigolo when I was young, so I must have seemed right for the part. Had to cut that budding relationship because I am too much of a germophobe even for most average partners. But I did jack him off at a nude beach when I saw him a few months later, which, I agreed with him as he said right after he shot his load, "That was fun."