Very true, but then I think it is not only the woman, but the man who can also be less likely to let go at an early age.
When we begin to be sexual, we all stumble, worry, make mistakes, but sometimes and somehow...on some occasions seem to get it right! Those are the Good times!
But, most of the time, it is just a good or bad, hit or miss learning experience. Only with maturity (not just age) can this learning experience bring about a more enjoyable and less
inhibited kind of sex, one that can be totally satifying for both. It takes practice and should never be a "slam, bam, thank you Mam/Sir" thing. One should take time to make sure both are satisfied and are enjoying every minute!
One should not worry too much about getting things wrong, for no matter what you do, they will happen....just let it be a learning experience....and move on.