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I know it sounds like a cliché, but it's starting to feel problematic though.
It seems that I'm always falling for the typical gym bro straight guy. It doesn't always have to be the over-the-top-obvious sexy guy. But just sometimes the regular sporty one, like the cool friend you'd have. No drama, just chill.
To be clear, I have never done something with a straight guy, I'm not oppost to it (it would still be a fantasy fulfilled), but I respect the boundaries and would never innitiate it myself.
Yet I seemed to be only attracted to the straight guys and not the gays. I can be good friends with gay guys (i have some really good friends), but I can't seem to find myself that much interested in them romantically. Occasionally physically attracted maybe. But that 'bit of extra' always seem to make me lose interest.
I wonder if it's because I haven't fully embraced "being gay" and seem to admire the straight guys that haven't have to deal with thisissue. I dunno... I came out late at only 25. Had GF's before, but I don't think I'm bisexual. Nor do I question my masculinity or think I was born in the wrong body.
It just doesn't seem to work for me
It sucks.
Does anyone have the same issue?
It seems that I'm always falling for the typical gym bro straight guy. It doesn't always have to be the over-the-top-obvious sexy guy. But just sometimes the regular sporty one, like the cool friend you'd have. No drama, just chill.
To be clear, I have never done something with a straight guy, I'm not oppost to it (it would still be a fantasy fulfilled), but I respect the boundaries and would never innitiate it myself.
Yet I seemed to be only attracted to the straight guys and not the gays. I can be good friends with gay guys (i have some really good friends), but I can't seem to find myself that much interested in them romantically. Occasionally physically attracted maybe. But that 'bit of extra' always seem to make me lose interest.
I wonder if it's because I haven't fully embraced "being gay" and seem to admire the straight guys that haven't have to deal with thisissue. I dunno... I came out late at only 25. Had GF's before, but I don't think I'm bisexual. Nor do I question my masculinity or think I was born in the wrong body.
It just doesn't seem to work for me
It sucks.
Does anyone have the same issue?
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