Why am I attracting black men?

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It recently occured to me that I am approched by black men often. On dating websites and at the bars. The bar nor the sites are "black" places. Not complaining, I don't mind the attention. Its just raining black men for me right now..
 

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It recently occured to me that I am approched by black men often. On dating websites and at the bars. The bar nor the sites are "black" places. Not complaining, I don't mind the attention. Its just raining black men for me right now..

This is a very high complement. You obviously come across in a way that those who approach you find attractive. The size of your dick is not the deciding factor, your personality is. Personally I think this is an outstanding complement to you in every way.

As has been said before! Go with the flow and have fun!
 

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Thanks for all of the encouraging comments. The comments also bring up this questions: is cock size more important for men of color? Could they be saying, "if I’m going to get with this confident white guy he better be hung"...
 

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Cock size is not a deal breaker for me. Now yes I like a decent size but if I find you attractive it's because I like the way you look, or your personality is amazing, etc. There is no way to know the guy is hung unless you catch them in the bathroom, lol.

I guess the question is, do you like men of color?
 
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Thanks for all of the encouraging comments. The comments also bring up this questions: is cock size more important for men of color? Could they be saying, "if I’m going to get with this confident white guy he better be hung"...


:rolleyes:

Are you serious? This thread is seething with I'll just say it because no one else will, racism.
 

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Do you have other friends of color? Black men might prefer guys who have a diverse set of friends.

Overall, my favorite explanation is that you're in Detroit. Black people are fine with going to Detroit, but I think non-black people are less fine with it, especially gays, who probably want to concentrate in other cities like NYC/LA/SF/Chicago. A gay black guy would probably be fine with going to Detroit moreso than a gay non-black guy. From there, it's just statistics; more gay black guys means more gay black guys who like you.