For some reason lately, I keep feeling compelled to not use condoms. STDs aren't an issue here, but I do not want any pregnancy. My girl is on the pill and seems to be pretty reliable about taking it. I just dont trust the pill completely for birth control so I almost always use spermicidal lube if I am not going to use a condom. Is it irresponsible to not use condoms if the girl is on the pill and i use spermicidal lube? Sex just feels soo much better without em.