Why am I rubbish at being unfaithful?

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  1. HamYai

    HamYai New Member

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    I've been unfaithful 4 times in my life (I'm in my fifties).

    Once when I was courting (teenage-kicks syndrome).

    Once when my wife and I went through a "bad patch" (don't feel too, too, sorry for her, I later discovered she was also being unfaithful and had been both prior and after my single indiscretion - and a lot more vigorously than I).

    Once when I had just started seeing another lady, following my divorce and we were not really committed to each other (just playing the field).

    Once when a pal and his girlfriend invited me into a threesome with them (on this occasion I felt I was being unfaithful to him, my friend, even though it was his idea and he really got off on the experience).

    On every occasion I have been absolutely rubbish. Erection dysfunction, premature ejaculation - you name it, I suffered it.

    Was I born to be monogamous?
     
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    Based on what you typed in your own original, I'd say no you are not.
     
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    Then why am I so rubbish at not being monogamous?
     
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    Because you don't own up to it, you want to cheat go cheat you want to be faithful be faithful but make up your mind and don't stand in between.
     
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    You've got id problems and you know it in the back of your mind so your giving yourself penis problems
     
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    I know.

    I've always wanted to be a slut but I constantly think about the fact that I'm potentially hurting someone.:frown1:
     
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    you want to cheat go cheat you want to be faithful be faithful but make up your mind and don't stand in between.
     
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    its either giving or fighting your desires
     
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