Why Are All The Good Girls Taken?

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by B_ScaredLittleBoy, Sep 24, 2007.

  1. B_ScaredLittleBoy

    B_ScaredLittleBoy New Member

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    Or at least the hot ones (hot /= good)?

    This seriously hot girl...was checkin me out. I was having sex with her with my eyes (lol)...we got to talkin...she even said she liked Prince :tongue:

    But then she said she had a boyfriend. I turned around and he was a few feet away, giving me the evils hehe. I went over and said he was a VERY lucky man (or boy...lol).

    So why are they all taken!? I would have liked a go on that ride :wink:
     
  2. Tlss

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    Maybe you've been looking at the wrong place and at the wrong time.
     
  3. Osiris

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    I have a theory. When you are single, no one looks twice at you. When you are in a relationship, the world wants you. Why? Self confidence.

    When you are confident and secure, you show it. Now, if you were looking for someone, wouldn't you want the happy, secure and confident one?

    She was secure and confident hence the "spoken for" thing.

    Does that make sense?
     
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    Try changing the yardstick. Defining someone by their appearance isnt necessarily going to lead to finding a 'good (or 'hot') girl'...
     
  5. exwhyzee

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    Because they are good.
     
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    I disagree with this. I think it has to do with YOUR looks & attitude, regardless of whether or not you're currently in a relationship. I'm not a bad looking guy, but no one's 'had sex with his/her eyes' with me since the Reagan Administration.

    Some people got it, others don't. That girl's got it and would have it if single, married, whatever....... Osiris, you may also just "have it." Mostly, it's looks.

    :cool:


     
  7. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Yeah she had that certain 'je ne sais quoi'. Hot, but also had a beautiful..aura. Just 100% fit and nice to talk to :wink: Seemingly me but with tits! lol.

    I see what you mean, it would make someone more confident being in a relationship...but she was just 'wow'.

    Why did she have to be taken? :tongue:
     
  8. Osiris

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    I'll buy that. Looks do wiegh in, but I think some of each applies. Wouldn't you say? :smile:
     
  9. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Yeah, there are certain physically attractive girls with annoying voices, or 'air heads' etc...this girl was parfait.

    So...will I have to wait for the taken girls to be untaken? Like; are the 'good ones' available as you get older? You have to wait for that kind of special?
     
  10. wldhoney

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    *wldhoney opens the unlocked door without knocking*

    Well, SLB, I would say it's because they are apparently all on the internet doing German porn........

    *slams door and skips away* giggle
     
  11. got_lost

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    One thing I realised years ago, was when I was out looking for a bloke, all dolled up and 'trying', I never found one.

    The night I just went out for a few pints with my mates, I always scored....
    It was always on those nights I was most 'me'.

    Same thing as someone in a relationship... they aren't trying to score either.
    Osiris is right... in each case the confidence is there

    The moral of my story.... stop seeking and ye shall find!! :wink:
     
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    i believe it comes down to patience.

    there are alot of HOT girls that men overlook because they are
    not dolled up with attitude,hair and accessories.

    men could just as easily teach a girl how to be hot.
    they just are not patient enough,

    they usually wind up going for the
    girl that "looks" hot right now,but in most cases
    that is all she knows,how to be cute/HOTT/flirty
    remember paris hilton sucking cock? it sucked. no passion.
    no man or woman has shown her PASSION through patience.

    once the dopamine settles,they seek new attention to
    feel hot/dopamine again,by being cute and flirty.
    Find a girl who could be your ideal with time,and teach her without
    letting her know you are teaching her.
    and you will have a HOT girl,that doesn't flirt with scared little boys.
    so,they are not "all taken" you just need to make one of your own,
    rather than grasping at club decorations.
     
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    They're not all taken. They just don't want to go out with you.
     
  14. rob_just_rob

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    Funny how so many women have a similar complaint about how all the good guys are taken.

    Perhaps you're in the wrong place. Or you're setting your sights too high. Or otherwise setting yourself up to fail.
     
  15. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    Nah its not like I was after her, just would have been nice to get her number or something :tongue:

    I think my aim is okay...I'd rather aim high and miss than aim low and have something (someone) I don't really want :tongue:

    Could be the place...no one ever goes there who's single...except me and my friends of course hehe.
     
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    I think your looking in the wrong place. There are a lot of good girls out there. Work,church, the mall, friends. So many it crazy.

    At bars and clubs your going to have a hard time finding good girls. Get a job where a bunch of women work and you will meet some.
     
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    We are in Texas waiting for Scared Little Boy to come over and play ;)
     
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    We are not all taken, we just don't like to be equated with carnival rides. :tongue:

    Makes perfect sense as it happens to me all the time. :redface:
     
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    did u get her number? cuz u could so have banged her
     
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    How well I know...
     
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